Been seeing a plate since Feb. I’m 39. She’s 35. She wants LTR. I’m not there yet/I haven’t developed feelings beyond FWB 2x per week (one weeknight, one weekend night).
I told her a month ago that nothing’s changed as for our connection, but if she still wants to hang, I’m game.
Picked up a new girl two weeks ago, I met at a local restaurant’s happy hour. 23 years old. Solid 6. Banged a few times. I’ve mostly moved on.
My landlord/neighbor’s wife is friends with the main plate. She has seen me with this other plate a few times (we all live in a small semi-rural area) and just gave me a “talking to” last night. Main plate asks her if I bring other girls home. Landlady says no, but says she can no longer say that.
NBD. I never asked her to say anything/lie/or tell the truth. That’s on her.
Basically, main plate could become a GF. She meets all my requirements except she could drop 30 lbs. (She does exercise/go to gym almost everyday since we’ve been seeing each other. I’ve never directly told her to lose weight to be with me (speaking Venusian), but I always point out fat girls we see in public and state how disgusting I find them, and that I think Fitness is a major priority in my life: main plate definitely gets the point).
Option 1: Drop second plate, keep spinning main plate, bang new plates out of town and at their place, not mine. See if relationship ever develops with main plate and take it day by day.
Option 2: Drop all plates. Start over.
Option 3: Drop main plate. Spin second plate till she self-drops.
Option 4: Upgrade main plate to GF. Only considering this because she passes every compliance test. Treats me like a king. Has only given two sh!t tests in the 6 months we’ve been hanging (I immediately squashed both and she hasn’t tested me in months). I’ve never had a woman treat me as good as she does, so, it’s something to consider.
Thoughts? I know I can pull chicks when I choose. I definitely have an abundance mindset about this all. If they all drop, NBD, it makes the holidays easier. If I keep main plate spinning, she’s a good companion.
I told her a month ago that nothing’s changed as for our connection, but if she still wants to hang, I’m game.
Picked up a new girl two weeks ago, I met at a local restaurant’s happy hour. 23 years old. Solid 6. Banged a few times. I’ve mostly moved on.
My landlord/neighbor’s wife is friends with the main plate. She has seen me with this other plate a few times (we all live in a small semi-rural area) and just gave me a “talking to” last night. Main plate asks her if I bring other girls home. Landlady says no, but says she can no longer say that.
NBD. I never asked her to say anything/lie/or tell the truth. That’s on her.
Basically, main plate could become a GF. She meets all my requirements except she could drop 30 lbs. (She does exercise/go to gym almost everyday since we’ve been seeing each other. I’ve never directly told her to lose weight to be with me (speaking Venusian), but I always point out fat girls we see in public and state how disgusting I find them, and that I think Fitness is a major priority in my life: main plate definitely gets the point).
Option 1: Drop second plate, keep spinning main plate, bang new plates out of town and at their place, not mine. See if relationship ever develops with main plate and take it day by day.
Option 2: Drop all plates. Start over.
Option 3: Drop main plate. Spin second plate till she self-drops.
Option 4: Upgrade main plate to GF. Only considering this because she passes every compliance test. Treats me like a king. Has only given two sh!t tests in the 6 months we’ve been hanging (I immediately squashed both and she hasn’t tested me in months). I’ve never had a woman treat me as good as she does, so, it’s something to consider.
Thoughts? I know I can pull chicks when I choose. I definitely have an abundance mindset about this all. If they all drop, NBD, it makes the holidays easier. If I keep main plate spinning, she’s a good companion.