Discovered why ex left me

[djthiago1]

So, during my relationship i happened to discover my ex's FB password, and i finally got what i wanted from it, THE TRUTH WHY SHE BROKE UP.

When she broke up she said her heart was confused, and that it wasn't me it was her, but today she spoke to her mom on FB and said this:

EX: hi mom, i broke up with my bf

Mom: why?

Ex: I didn't want it anymore.

mom: wow

ex: lol

mom: i'm at a loss for words
was he annoying?

ex: yes a LOT

mom: jealousy?

ex : no
he just was annoying

mom: do you miss him?

ex: there's not a day a remember he exists, hahaha.

You guys see that sht? This b1tch just "hahaha"d me. I did everything for this wh0re, she's a hb6 at BEST, she's shy/timid, anti-social, lazy, never partied, never drinks alcohol, sucked at sex, and I'M ANNOYING AND BORING?

I swear to god guys.

What could be catagorized as annoying? I'm trying to suppress anger right now and instead learn from my mistakes and move on.

 

[VikingKing]

So, during my relationship i happened to discover my ex's FB password, and i finally got what i wanted from it, THE TRUTH WHY SHE BROKE UP.

When she broke up she said her heart was confused, and that it wasn't me it was her, but today she spoke to her mom on FB and said this:

EX: hi mom, i broke up with my bf

Mom: why?

Ex: I didn't want it anymore.

mom: wow

ex: lol

mom: i'm at a loss for words
was he annoying?

ex: yes a LOT

mom: jealousy?

ex : no
he just was annoying

mom: do you miss him?

ex: there's not a day a remember he exists, hahaha.

You guys see that sht? This b1tch just "hahaha"d me. I did everything for this wh0re, she's a hb6 at BEST, she's shy/timid, anti-social, lazy, never partied, never drinks alcohol, sucked at sex, and I'M ANNOYING AND BORING?

I swear to god guys.

What could be catagorized as annoying? I'm trying to suppress anger right now and instead learn from my mistakes and move on.

Not only did she haha you, she said it to her mother. Well, now how women can be. Don't even be mad man, think about how you can use this information to your advantage.

 

[djthiago1]

Not only did she haha you, she said it to her mother. Well, now how women can be. Don't even be mad man, think about how you can use this information to your advantage.

Well, how can i use it to my advantage? I'm a bit overwhelmed here so i can't think straight.

 

[Desdinova]

Well, how can i use it to my advantage? I'm a bit overwhelmed here so i can't think straight.

The lesson to learn here is: Don't do everything for a wh0re.

 

[djthiago1]

The lesson to learn here is: Don't do everything for a wh0re.

Problem is, i thought she was a "good girl", and "marriage material", cause she doesn't like to party or drink alcohol.

 

[Between_The_Lines]

Problem is, i thought she was a "good girl", and "marriage material", cause she doesn't like to party or drink alcohol.

You projected these qualities onto her. It's ok, it happens. If it's any consolation, I'm calling BS on not going a single day without thinking about you, it's her way of trying to assert her supremacy over you, but none of that matters any more.

GET RID OF HER FACEBOOK PASSWORD ASAP!! It will only get worse!! Next she'll be ripping you apart to some guy she just met. You've seen enough. You stand nothing to gain but pain and suffering by snooping in on her Facebook activity and discovering for yourself what she really thinks about you. But above all, do what you must to get rid of that password, then business as usual - NC from here on out.

 

[Greasy Pig]

Never underestimate your perfect little flower's innate ability to turn into a ball cutting cvnt at a moment's notice.
Live and learn OP.

 

[djthiago1]

I feel she was just keeping a convo with the mom, what are the chances the mother guessed it? I bet there is another reason why she broke up with you, keep us posted when you find out.

She only talks to her mom through facebook cause she lives in Japan, her mom did guessed it, i've read all their conversations from the past. I don't plan on using her facebook again, i already got the information i wanted from it.

Also, no idea why, but she took a month and 2 weeks to tell her mom that, she could have told her anytime she wanted it, she and her mom are online almost everyday.

 

[hudpes]

I did everything for this wh0re, she's a hb6 at BEST, she's shy/timid, anti-social, lazy, never partied, never drinks alcohol, sucked at sex, and I'M ANNOYING AND BORING?

There's your answer. You were too nice. You okayed everything about her and she didn't have to work for anything, there were no challenges, you were happy with everything. She needed someone that she would have to work on for his affection and attention....

 

[El Payaso]

To be honest, I think you need to throw away her password. Forget her password if you can. Why? Because as long as you have it, you will never truly move on. Your mind will always be stuck on her.

You will constantly be checking up on her and it is not good for your mental health. It will be even more devastating when she starts talking to other guys on Facebook and you see them. It will break you down.

I know what it's like. I had an ex who I used to check up on constantly on Twitter. The day I found out she was getting married tore me to shreds because it came out of left field for me. She got married less than three weeks after breaking up with me.

Trust me. Forget her password so you can move on for your own sake. If possible, initiate contact and tell her that you think her account has been hacked because you keep getting spam messages from her so she should change her password. Simple.

Don't make your life stuck in the past and live it in a nervous wreck.

 

[BraddH]

Exactly. That's the reason ur annoying: keeping her password, getting angry about a hb6 who's stupid as fvck.

 

[JohnyTheArrow]

This is why it is important not to sacrifice because she sucks your **** but next week may suck another. I once bought a lot of expensive gifts and jewellery for my gf,I was in love in her, and love is blind.I really regret later that I spent my hardearned money on her.

Every princess will despise you after breakup, that's something to have always in mind, never overinvest into a woman, never give more than you get.
She is perfectly normal BTW, don't expect honor from a woman, empathy etc.
dont read her FB, she is not worth attention.

 

[Married Buried]

To be honest, I think you need to throw away her password. Forget her password if you can. Why? Because as long as you have it, you will never truly move on. Your mind will always be stuck on her.

You will constantly be checking up on her and it is not good for your mental health. It will be even more devastating when she starts talking to other guys on Facebook and you see them. It will break you down.

I know what it's like. I had an ex who I used to check up on constantly on Twitter. The day I found out she was getting married tore me to shreds because it came out of left field for me. She got married less than three weeks after breaking up with me.

Trust me. Forget her password so you can move on for your own sake. If possible, initiate contact and tell her that you think her account has been hacked because you keep getting spam messages from her so she should change her password. Simple.

Don't make your life stuck in the past and live it in a nervous wreck.

Forget texting her to change her pw. Login to her account and YOU change the pw to something random. She will get an email advising pw was changed and she will go reset it to something different.

 

[exhausted]

Never underestimate your perfect little flower's innate ability to turn into a ball cutting cvnt at a moment's notice.
Live and learn OP.

Excellent point

 

[exhausted]

Exactly. That's the reason ur annoying: keeping her password, getting angry about a hb6 who's stupid as fvck.

Come on cut him some slack

We all have to learn

 

[In2theGame]

Dont let this bother you, As hard as it is to not let it bother you but i went through similar with my Ex. Worse yet, she talked bad about me to her whole family, friends and facebook. Many times Girls talk out their azz after a breakup. It hurt alot but just ignore it because a lot of it is just emotional talk.

 

[mikey2012]

Walk away with your held up high and forget it.

 

[Starfvcks 64]

"Boring" just means you have standards that she can't accept. You saw her as a good girl, and she was starting to feel like being "good" isn't fun. To her, your standards meant she couldn't have fun the way she wanted. For example, if a girl wants to go out and get drunk, but knows her BF won't approve, her BF must be "boring" because she is incapable of admitting she is compromising certain values he appreciated in her.

I'm not doing a good job explaining, but I've seen the scenario play out before.
It's the way girls rationalize their behavior. If a girl cheats on a guy, she has a million reasons why it was OK for her to do it. She can't say "I broke up with him because he held me to a higher standard than I could possibly live up to" because she would have to admit fault of some sort, even in a very abstract way.

I don't know what she was like then or now, or if I'm even right about her wanting to have more "fun," but I know that you shouldn't put much value in her words. Some exes talk so much shlt about their ex, for sympathy, to ease guilt, etc. That is why it's important to keep them out of your life fully after a break up. She is going to do what she is going to do, and trying to stop her is only going to give her more power.

I've kept digital tabs on an ex for several months at one point in my life, and I've seen the dualism play out before my eyes. She'd be texting me saying she misses me, and messaging her friend saying she's glad I'm gone. Don't let it get to you, and don't get sucked into online stalker mode either. She will show the sides she wants people to see, when she wants people to see them.

 

[El Payaso]

Forget texting her to change her pw. Login to her account and YOU change the pw to something random. She will get an email advising pw was changed and she will go reset it to something different.

I don't know about that. Facebook, Google and all these new tech companies show the exact location and device that accessed or tried to access your account or change your password. It's better for him to just use cumming to get her to change it so he can move on.

 

[YawataNoKami]

Problem is, i thought she was a "good girl", and "marriage material", cause she doesn't like to party or drink alcohol.

Sorry man, there are no such thing as "a good girl" and marriage material".