"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Hi everybody, I'm Alex. I've been a member of this forum for about a year, yet never tried to wholeheartedly apply everything I read. So this is it. I downloaded the pdf version of the boot camp, and will complete all 8 weeks, posting updates in this thread.

I am making this public because if I don't, I'm pretty sure I'll give up and drop the entire thing. Now, I can't back out, since I'm pressured to update.

This is it. Today's Thursday. I will be starting the exercises at the beginning of next week, as it was intended.

Anyone with me? :D
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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i'll keep checkin in on u.

maybe i'll do it too. we can keep eachother in check? pm me
 

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Click on the DJ Bible link in the top right. It's there. Glad you wanna do it too :).
 

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haha okay. god this things long. k so we'll all post in this thread. haha this'll be fun.

i'll give my first posting monday. i've got reading to do...
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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if your in high school you can wait untill school starts or even b4 that and see what myself and smooth come up with...it will be VERY similiar to the regular version except geared towards more HS things and places to socialize (this is of course assuming you are in HS)

but DO NOT let ME hold YOU back, by all means go out their and become a DJ
 

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I will post results/experiences every sunday, end of each week, before beginning the new exercises. Glad you guys are with me :).
 

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rough night. i've been working on establishing and keeping eye contact (lol i'm loaded with ADD so i get bored and start watching mouth or boobs hehe) and i was macking a chick (hb 9) but i felt she was holding back...come to find out she had a boyfriend. however, i did pick up two girls who kept grabbing my a$s (hb 7, 8). i teased and would tell them to stop hitting on me and they loved it.

no numbers ( i didnt feel they were worth persuing ) but now that i think about it maybe it wasnt that bad of a night lol.
 

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crap does anyone know where u can find the threads that it mentions in the boot camp?

none of them work...
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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ahhh i was macking this girl allie out last night (hb 9!). we were at the movies and before i had talked to her on aim but i try to keep the conversations short (flirting on aim is hard as hell) but man i kept c&f up and did great.

stuff like at taco bell (next to the movie theater) the other two wanted to leave and i said i wasnt leaving yet and so we didnt leave. and i kept up great eye contact and said hello to a bunch of strangers...which was pretty funny once we found one of my drunk friends and were walking with him...i said hi to an old guy and he told me to "get the fvck outta my way" and this guy was like a grandpa!

nice evening though, even if i didnt score a kiss :( i did get some heavy kino in :)
 

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WEEK ONE RESULTS

Aight, the first week has passed, and like a studious pupil, I did my homework :).

The exercises consisted of maintaining eye contact and saying hi to random strangers (preferrably hot girls my age). While going through this, I realized how much I have forgotten, or unlearned since last summer. Seems like the ltr I'm in didn't give me much chance to practice (or I just got lazy).

Anyways, it left me elated. It was pleasant being friendly for no reason. Most people smiled and greeted me back, and only one girl didn't respond.

Overall, I think it was a good exercise. I taught myself how to look people in the eye and not be ashamed.

On the side, I am reading "Without Embarrassment Seduction System" by Michael Pilinski. It is really eye-opening, like the DJB but way more indepth. I greatly recommend this E-book for beginners like myself, though advanced dj's would also learn a few things from it. (there's more on it at www.fastseduction.com).

In conclusion, I am looking forward to next week's exercises. No doubt, they would be much harder. However, I'm going away for a while, so my updates may be a few days late.

Cheers!
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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nice. making eye contact is something i dont think about alot but now i focus on it and its fun. people connect much better.
 

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WEEK 2 RESULTS

Okay, so the second week is now over, and I did my homework once again. The exercises this time consisted of approaching 10 random strangers and making small talk.

I went a bit over 10, but oh well. The most memorable approach has been during my trip to a lake during the first few days of the week. A 30+ lady was sitting on a bench, enjoying the weather and the nature, so I approached her and we fluffed for a while. She told me about herself and her family, and mentioned a daughter my age. I perked up and decided to meet her husband and kids (including the hot daughter).

So I go over to her cottage and introduce myself to the rest of her family. The girl (17 yo, about 8.5 - 9, who turned out to be a model) and I decided to play bball the next day.

Next morning... I meet her at her cabin, and we go to the court. I was surprised when we were joined by her 14 yo brother, but didn't bring anything up. After the game, I did a bit of kino, to whitch she seemed receptive, though the convo was rocky, so I ejected fast, but not before inviting her for a walk later that evening, to sit and chat at the beach.

Comes evening, we get ready, and again the brother decides to come with us. So I tell her this isn't what I had in mind. She gives me the "i got a bf" line, and that's why the brother is coming. So I prod around to see how close she is to him. Turns out, she's pretty tight and been dating him for over 2 years. I tell her this isn't gonna go the way I thought it would, nice knowing you, yadi yada yada etc...

In the end, she wasn't someone I would consider dating. She comes from a town of 800 people, and doesn't seem to have enough neural connections to hold a conversation together. I lost count of how many times she mentioned how much she wanted to get drunk right there and then. In the end, her company was quite boring.


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Ok, long read. That's it. Other people I approached included old men, children, women, and hot chicks - basically everyone. Week 3 coming up. Anyone still reading this shìt? :D
 

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Interesting stories here, Disconnect.
Keep it up :)
 

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Heh, Shezzler, I'll make sure I do your boot camp as well :).

This has been great so far. I really went out of my comfort zone in order to get better with people. It's scary at times, but always rewarding.
 
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damn im gonna do that bootcamp thing 2 just for tha hell of it lol...school is startin again so plenty of practice for me!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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