I don't WANT the woman to be too comfortable.
The fact that she feels some level of anxiety around me while also having STRONG attraction is exactly the dynamic that is supposed to happen. You're supposed to be a little bit intimidated by the king. You're not supposed to feel like "anything goes and there are no rules".
This "anything goes" crap is why women today are such b*tches and men are total p*ssies. A man who doesn't keep his woman in check on some level creates a monster and loses all her respect at the same time.