dirty looks

[danthemann]

well since this past semester started, ill be walking around with my girl whose very pretty and random dudes will give me some dirty look like i took there girl. Honestly i pay no attention to these guys besides when i catch em, ill just stare back at em until they get the idea but im wondering if thats the right thing now. its almost like im getting sized up and this dude is threatening me, but i get it a lot and only when my girl is with me. now dont get me wrong, me and my girl are good and we laugh about this stuff and im cool with other dudes checking my girl out. but is ignoring them the right thing to do?

 

[ositosucio]

well since this past semester started, ill be walking around with my girl whose very pretty and random dudes will give me some dirty look like i took there girl. Honestly i pay no attention to these guys besides when i catch em, ill just stare back at em until they get the idea but im wondering if thats the right thing now. its almost like im getting sized up and this dude is threatening me, but i get it a lot and only when my girl is with me. now dont get me wrong, me and my girl are good and we laugh about this stuff and im cool with other dudes checking my girl out. but is ignoring them the right thing to do?

correct. or in a funny way tell your girl... sweetie, may be i should invite him to a 3some?..

 

[Mike32ct]

well since this past semester started, ill be walking around with my girl whose very pretty and random dudes will give me some dirty look like i took there girl. Honestly i pay no attention to these guys besides when i catch em, ill just stare back at em until they get the idea but im wondering if thats the right thing now. its almost like im getting sized up and this dude is threatening me, but i get it a lot and only when my girl is with me. now dont get me wrong, me and my girl are good and we laugh about this stuff and im cool with other dudes checking my girl out. but is ignoring them the right thing to do?

Obviously, they're just envious. But, I don't think staring back at them is a good idea. That is issuing a challenge and playing a game of "chicken." That might be ok if you're a really big guy that would intimidate them. But understand that, to some extent, it's a trap. Some really angry, jealous mofo might actually be trying to start someting with you so he can humiliate you in front of your girl. Regardless of your size, why invite drama when you don't have to?

If your eyes meet, just look away TO THE SIDE slightly and move on. Looking up is an insult like an eyeroll. Looking down is a sign of submission (bad). Looking to the side is neutral.

 

[jglide123]

Unless the guys are being rude by leering or cat calling, I would mostly just ignore it. Staring at guys in the wrong environment (E.g. nightclubs, or anywhere that serves alcohol) could lead to a fight. However, if you feel like a guy is staring in an inappropriate way, by all means let him know non-verbally (staring back) that his behavior is rude.

 

[Michele l'Arcangelo]

correct. or in a funny way tell your girl... sweetie, may be i should invite him to a 3some?..

I like using communication to subconsciously hint something or put an idea or image into someone's head very slyly. That being said, don't put some image of other guys' penises in her head.

Instead, play the guy off as gay.

"I'm not sure who's he looking at. But, there is no way it could be you with an ass like mine."

 

[Down Low]

Yeah, well, I consider it a backhanded compliment when guys' neck hairs get raised in my presence. I'm the top dog, and you hate it.