"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Beats indirect in my opinion if all you really want is some sex.

I don't think that telling a girl that all you want is sex from her early on is a bad thing. It works with the right kind of women.

All you have to do is spot the girls who are attracted to you from the beginning and who have that look in their eyes like they're waiting for ****. There is also a vibe certain girls give off that says "I want some ****, and nobody is being upfront about it"

What do you guys think? I've had 10000 times more success with this way than any of the indirect methods.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Example:

I walked into a party and was an easy going, fun guy just relaxed and vibing, being pleasant, not groping or looking at girls like meat like most of the guys there etc. I was in "state". So naturally, girls start opening me, looking at me for long periods of time, whispering to their friends, brushing up against me...what have you. I had my pick. So all I had to do was go up to one that I wanted and looked like she wanted some **** that night and open her with some situational opener related to the music she was listening to, I said "This song is making me want to do some E (it was rave type music, i dont do drugs but I know the culture)" and she laughed, we spoke for a minute and I told her to stand up. She stands up and I tell her to do a little spin so I can see something. When she's done I say "I knew I sat next to you for a reason, you have a gorgeous body, and I want to do gorgeous things to it"...she blushed, gave me some token resistance and I said "hey, you know what, it doesn't really matter if we get together tonight, all that matters it that we're both having fun and are happy. I'd like to have fun and be happy with you, just for tonight." She smiled and got tranced out and started doing the "eye scan" thing, I went for the kiss and landed one of the best kisses she's ever had, and then whispered in her ear "you ain't seen nothing yet" grabbed her by the wrist then and led her into the bedroom. I didn't care if it was the hosts bed. I got laid.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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