disgustipated
Master Don Juan
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So we sit down to dinner with her friend and her new hubby recently. She's over 40, prolly pushing 200 lbs too. Not real attractive ya know. Super bubbly personality though, never a dull moment. She starts talking about how good the new hubby is with her kids and how he is trying to ADOPT her kids. Guy hasn't even been with her for a year and he's married and trying to adopt her kids. I'm trying to keep a straight face when talking to.the guy but all the while thinking wtf are you doing to yourself man.
It gets worse with this woman. The ex husband comes up in conversation. Mostly about how he's so far behind in child support and now has a warrant because of it. Even though she just got done bragging she is rewarding her daughter with a stretch hummer limo for her birthday....she still cackle with glee over her Exes dire straits. Amazing. Then. She adds in , get this.....all while laughing,.what's funny is I also got him for alimony too even after all this child support, me and the divorce lawyer concocted this scheme to see if we could get it and it worked! If you leave ME you'd be lucky to leave with the clothes on your back! Its gonna hurt if you leave ME!!!
My eyes bugged out after hearing that. Immidiately I locked eyes with the new hubby and he gave me the same wide eyed look. We both had a laugh but.....he knows what he's getting into. I don't get it. Plus, she makes real good money and he does too....the new guy.
I didnt cause a scene. My girl and I have had similar discussions about how I feel about situations where mothers are well off after a split but yet will continue to try to make a man's life hell. My girls ex hasn't paid her anything over the years and I don't think he would....and jail wouldn't be a deterrent either.....so I told her look, why jail him when he gets your sun for half the summer, and a few holidays and keeps at least a relationship going with your son. All that stops if you lean on this type of guy anymore.
Never thought I'd see something like this so in my face.
It gets worse with this woman. The ex husband comes up in conversation. Mostly about how he's so far behind in child support and now has a warrant because of it. Even though she just got done bragging she is rewarding her daughter with a stretch hummer limo for her birthday....she still cackle with glee over her Exes dire straits. Amazing. Then. She adds in , get this.....all while laughing,.what's funny is I also got him for alimony too even after all this child support, me and the divorce lawyer concocted this scheme to see if we could get it and it worked! If you leave ME you'd be lucky to leave with the clothes on your back! Its gonna hurt if you leave ME!!!
My eyes bugged out after hearing that. Immidiately I locked eyes with the new hubby and he gave me the same wide eyed look. We both had a laugh but.....he knows what he's getting into. I don't get it. Plus, she makes real good money and he does too....the new guy.
I didnt cause a scene. My girl and I have had similar discussions about how I feel about situations where mothers are well off after a split but yet will continue to try to make a man's life hell. My girls ex hasn't paid her anything over the years and I don't think he would....and jail wouldn't be a deterrent either.....so I told her look, why jail him when he gets your sun for half the summer, and a few holidays and keeps at least a relationship going with your son. All that stops if you lean on this type of guy anymore.
Never thought I'd see something like this so in my face.