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Dinner - Do I take up her offer?

enDo

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There is a girl that I know as an acquaintance in my college, i chose her as my target one day, dont really know why, just cuz shes a cutie and shes cool.

anyways, i "found" her on myspace and have been exchanging messages (i have been waiting to bump into her for a week and gave up and msg'd her on myspace)

My first msg to her:
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Subject: wdup bum
Body: hey, got this mysspce thing a month ago, found yours on the bowdoin list, howve u been?
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her reply:

From: joanna
Date: Apr 12, 2006 10:29 PM

I've been both WHEEE and UGH. How about you?
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My reply:

Body: eh grinding through, and you can sign up for the class at the SU, id do it asap if you want to do it cuz there are only like 7 spaces when i checked last. [*she commented on my myspace and asked about these classses i was offering in the student digest]

i never bump into you around campus, you always lock yourself in? whats your number, lets grab dinner
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her reply:

yea thanks, *******. i'm out and about. punk. i actually see you quite often, but you're always speeding away on a board with wheels.

i don't have any meals for the week. if you're down for pub food, how about dinnah tomorrow? unless it's one of those things where someone says "let's hang out!" but never really means it.
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So I am thinking of replying by saying something like "man i gotta hang out with you now that you called me out on it. blah, :D. alrite, meet me at jack mcgees tommorow night at 7."

good? should i not reply and wait till monday? she doesnt even really know that im sorta trying to make it datish rather than just "hanging out". i guess ill make it datish with the conversation topics, like try to move towards sex and that type of stuff?

should i try to hang out with her afterwards and see what shes up to for the night?

help an AFC bruda out guys :rock:
 

Tell her a little about yourself, but not too much. Maintain some mystery. Give her something to think about and wonder about when she's at home.

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Help an AFC bruda out?

You're too modest, really.

Obviously, you've taken initiation on this chick, she's digging you, she's down to meet up... the only thing that can kill this now is... of course... YOU.

Thousands upon thousands of ways to take this, you're still on course, just remember to KEEP DOING WHAT YOU'VE BEEN DOING.
 

enDo

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Cruise said:
Help an AFC bruda out?

You're too modest, really.

Obviously, you've taken initiation on this chick, she's digging you, she's down to meet up... the only thing that can kill this now is... of course... YOU.

Thousands upon thousands of ways to take this, you're still on course, just remember to KEEP DOING WHAT YOU'VE BEEN DOING.
thanks man

UPDATES:
so I went to dinner with her today at local spot on campus and it went well, we ate and talked for an hour and a half, then we went to the art building where she showed me some of her stuff for a while and we hung out there.

BUT, I find out that she has a boyfriend :down:. However, she talked about how shes going abroad for a year next semester and she doesnt know if she wants to go through with a LDR. She also briefly mentioned how she gets pissed off with him, apparently they also havent fukked in a long time. I also took some shots at her boyfriend jokingly making fun of him and she was laughing along.

since theyre obviously going to break up soon, i dont really feel bad about pursuing this, but what do you guys think. do i have a chance? is she unconsciously wishing for someone to take her out of her relationship? (hes also somewhat of an emo kid, i just cant respect that. i feel like it'll be a favor if i get her out of this :D)

im gonna call her in the middle of the week next week and tell her to get ready by 7 so we can go out for some indian.
 

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the only relationship i seem to be able to get into with a girl is if i help her break up with a guy, lol so i think i may be able to help here. My experience is that u need to be the guy she can cry to BUT asap get her drunk and mess around with her. In your drunken state you can make nutty claims about how much better she would be with you. To tell you the truth its worked 100% of the time for me but always be prepared for a slap in the face and move on.
 

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this is my idea.
go get indian food (should I pay?? seems too datish), then try to get her to my place, show her some stuff on my computer, my room etc (i live in a dorm), then try to kiss her

the thing is it may be somewhat abrupt. whats something good to say before i try to make a move? "so how close are you with your 'boyfriend'" [with a sly grin], then move in and see how she reacts
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

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Um. Drop her. She has a boyfriend.. helllooooo. Unless you want him to hunt you down. Its just a bad idea man.
 

enDo

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ProtoMan1 said:
Um. Drop her. She has a boyfriend.. helllooooo. Unless you want him to hunt you down. Its just a bad idea man.
dude, no.
he's an emo kid, the most he'll do is cut himself, cry, then listen to my morning jacket
 
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