This girl I'm going to college w/ next year wants to hangout. She seems chill on the phone / online, and wants to get dinner fri night. We should each pay for our own food right? Should I do a movie and dinner or just dinner? Its just a meeting to get to know each other. She offered to be my prom date if I couldn't find one. I don't have any prospective dates, but I didn't tell her. I plan on trying to makeout w/ her before prom at least so I know she'll put out on prom night. Anyway, movie and dinner so we have something to talk about or just dinner? Any advice for the dinner? I've never taken a girl out to dinner who wasn't my gf. I barely know this girl...what are some good ways to break the ice and make it a fun night. I'm a little shy when I first meet people, so I need a way to get comfortable w/ her before I open up.
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- Thread starter priz
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
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shydude
Master Don Juan
Dinner, well you have to eat with your mouth closed, eat properly with knife and fork in your hands, Drink a little of water after you bite your peace of meat, eat in small ammounts, go to bathroom every 10 minutes so you get to piss. EASY AS THAT!!
shydude
Master Don Juan
priz said:
Ofcourse you do!! I was just messing around that time. Well dont go to a way too fancy restaurant, dont go somewhere like Mcdonalds either. I would prefer chilis (like you said). They make good food there, thats what everyone says. NOw the girl part: When taking her to dinner, try being more of a gentelman
like push the chair for her, open car doors, and all those things. Then you said you wanted to go to the movie after dinner?? Well its basically your and her choice were you wanna go. NO need to be a leader, couse you said you wanna get to know her, ask her questions and so far. Movies would be better when you both fell more comfortable with each other. For now i would take her to an amusement park, they are awsome at NIGHT or evening. Or take here somewhere were you and her gonna have fun and at the same tme you will get to know each other better. Ask her questions and try not to talk about YOURself unless she asks. Hope this helps