"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Dinner Date and possible lay afterwards HELP

intraining

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So i have a dinner date with a good friend of mine this tuesday.We have never had sex and well i think it could possibly happen this day.WE have never been out to dinner together and i plan to bring a single red rose(to cheesy?).The setting is going to be right shes going to be dressed up so am i and were eating late at night 10-11 she also has no work the next day(usually works early mornings).WE are very comfortable with each other physically and orally so kissing at the end is no problem but i want more this day(never had sex with her).

Im going to be the cool calm guy that i am but any help will be appreciated.Elevator eyes and telling her she looks sexy are things i will say but i need more help.She is 20 im 22 we both are still living at home(college owns our pockets)so it might not work but her room is downstairs and everyone will be sleeping
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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A good friend? Don't think you're getting a lay here. Yes, a rose is cheesy at this point.
 

B4IFURU18?

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Make sure to pay for dinner, over compliment, and tell her how you feel. i.e. that you want to **** the living daylights out of her.

Just a few things off the top of my head that will help your lay, lay you.

Kidding.

Just be calm, and cool, Steve McQueen'esque. If you do that, and you escalate when you should, you could be gripped tight on them hips in no time.
 

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Definitely no flower. The stuff that works in the romantic movies rarely works in real life. Just do what ^^ says and play it cool. ****y and playful.

BUT...

You want her to start thinking about you as a sexual guy. You need to project that sexual state the whole time. If you haven't read the Gunwitch guide, I suggest you read it RIGHT NOW. It'll definitely help you keep calm while you try to escalate.
 

intraining

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whoa whoa im sorry guys i didnt mean to put that good friend part.Lets just say were getting to no each other more and more everyday
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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