Dillema- Help me out..

[LegendBoy]

Okay now there was this i fancied at a function I didnt talk to her got her msn through a mutual friend. Chatted and she admited she thought I was good looking but didnt bother to pursuit me that night and just left it at that..

Now I talked 2 her and all that got her number and all that.. She asked for my number and msg me asking if I want to meet up. I politely declined and said another time. So now she wants me to come club with her and her friends tomorow night. Now it seems like it was way too easy.. I mean she is relatively good looking.. Best I have had a crack at so far.

We exchanged like 7 or 8 text today now everything seems way to easy. Would a girl give a guy she is not interested in her number, text him, ask him out, keep flirting and all that???.. Now I am guessing she loves my looks thats why so.

Ill update yous if i go club tomorow night. I better get a hook up.

Advice will be appreicated djs.

 

[edmond]

Make sure that you look and dress razor sharp when you see her.
Good Luck.

 

[xectxny19x]

This is a little hard. From my experience a girl who is REALLY interested in you is not THAT forward. A girl who is that forward sounds like to me she thinks you are a sure thing. A sure thing as in if she wanted you to go anywhere w/ her, you'd go if you were free. I don't know about you, but usually the girls I date are at least a little nervous. They're afraid of rejection, too.

They'll give me opportunities to ask them out like tell me there's a new club, lounge or event going on but wouldn't invite me themselves.

Anyway, go to this club w/ her & her friends if you want to. Have fun & show your value. Don't act as if you are in a relationship w/ her or that you like her in a special way. Dance & talk to other people.

:rockon:

 

[Kings_royalty]

Would a girl give a guy she is not interested in her number, text him, ask him out, keep flirting and all that???..

Not in my experience. If a girl is an attention wh*re, she will do just enough to keep a guy around, but not go to that extent.

I have had experiences that were just as easy and everything turned out fine, so don't sweat it.

If you decide to go tomorrow, tell her you will meet her there and bring friends! DO NOT GO BY YOURSELF. If this girl decides to act like a b*tch or tries to play hard to get, you can take your friends and leave or go to a different part of the club and have some fun chatting up some hotties. It's a win/win situation.

Personally, I would take her up on the offer. She showed an effort to hang with you, so reward her with your presence.

 

[LegendBoy]

I mean its not all interest but she will send me a kiss on msn and then ill be like wait till tomorrow and she will be like she didnt mean it. We shall c this chick has given me all ioi so. Im going to get a little drunk before i meet up lol

 

[Kings_royalty]

I mean its not all interest but she will send me a kiss on msn and then ill be like wait till tomorrow and she will be like she didnt mean it. We shall c this chick has given me all ioi so. Im going to get a little drunk before i meet up lol

of course she will say she didn't mean it, she's trying to keep up the banter but it's 'weak' on her part.

drunk, for what? you've been doing good so far, don't get drunk and turn into a jacka$$.

 

[resilient]

Agreed, don't get drunk. :nono:

It will kill the vibe and make you look not as brave. Brush your teeth so you're breath smells perfect, and look sharp.

If she flakes without a counter offer, flush the # and block her msn - because by then you'll know she was just an attention wh0re.

 

[LegendBoy]

When I don't drink I tend to take everything to seriously.. Even though my last date I got a hook up. It fukd ova because I was too arrogant so when I had nothing to talk about. I talked about myself. Alcohol gives me that chilled factor. Did i mention technically she is going out for her friends 18th. So she has 2 friends coming and her. I am going to give the friends plenty of attention and then isolate her somewhere in the club..

Lol she is like 3 months older then me 2... Thanks guyss.. Keep responses flowing I want to ****ing score tonight.. Ps alcohol wastes too much money :kick:

 

[Cod3r]

Dosen't look good to me...

I'd be sketchy about a girl who invited me out with a few of her good friends the first time we chilled together. She's looking to SH!T TEST the hell out of you bro. I hope you know what you're getting into before you go... SHe's going to be an ice-queen to you and expect you to hang around her trying to get her to pay attention to you and buy drinks and all of that...

She's got backup in her friends too, mannn you either better be very socially adjustable and able to acquaint yourself with the other hotties at the place or be able to charm her friends, DO NOT get on the friends bad side, that's game over my friend. If you can get the friends to think you're 'the man' you've basically got a 'fvck me tonight' free card, but if you fvck that up you're going to get a 'i'm masturbating tonite' card instead bro !

I liked the advice someone else gave, DO NOT go there by yourself. Bring either a few good girlfriends or a good guy friend so WHEN she starts acting *****y and chit chatty with her friends and not you, you can grab him and open some sets and have your own fun. PLEASE do not hang around her friends like a buncha losers, make your own fun and if the broads wanna join in... let them... bring friends !


-Cod3r

 

[LegendBoy]

Well she has a car and **** and she is driving there soo I won't be buying anyone drinks. Problem is if I bring a friend then i don't want to ditch him off for her if I get in closer. Ill game the friends and her.. But her 2 friends are getting hammered I think.

Besides most my good m8s are still 17.. 18 is legal here.. Others are poor asses or still got exams. lllool.

I mean she msged me last nigh when she was out with her friends saying she was bored and at maccas and I didnt write back.. She comes on msn and she waits like 10mins then msgs me on msn saying "Not saying hello to me?" lol.. Well we will see what comes of it tonight ay..


**** i got 4 months off right now till university **** this is the best time in my life if i make use of it . 4 mofuking months off..

Thanks for the comments.. Keep me revved

 

[THE_ADDMAN]

Dosen't look good to me...

I'd be sketchy about a girl who invited me out with a few of her good friends the first time we chilled together. She's looking to SH!T TEST the hell out of you bro. I hope you know what you're getting into before you go... SHe's going to be an ice-queen to you and expect you to hang around her trying to get her to pay attention to you and buy drinks and all of that...

She's got backup in her friends too, mannn you either better be very socially adjustable and able to acquaint yourself with the other hotties at the place or be able to charm her friends, DO NOT get on the friends bad side, that's game over my friend. If you can get the friends to think you're 'the man' you've basically got a 'fvck me tonight' free card, but if you fvck that up you're going to get a 'i'm masturbating tonite' card instead bro !

I liked the advice someone else gave, DO NOT go there by yourself. Bring either a few good girlfriends or a good guy friend so WHEN she starts acting *****y and chit chatty with her friends and not you, you can grab him and open some sets and have your own fun. PLEASE do not hang around her friends like a buncha losers, make your own fun and if the broads wanna join in... let them... bring friends !


-Cod3r

Thats probably true.

You should go, and then do the unexpected.

Be cool, ignore her, be positive and talk to everyone, make the friends like you and just have a great time

THEN fake a call on your cell phone, finish the "call" by saying "ok, see you soon baby"
then excuse yourself and leave on a high note

The hunter becomes the hunted

 

[Cod3r]

I mean she msged me last nigh when she was out with her friends saying she was bored and at maccas and I didnt write back.. She comes on msn and she waits like 10mins then msgs me on msn saying "Not saying hello to me?" lol.. Well we will see what comes of it tonight ay..

You're playing a very good game bro Keep it up...

If you're not bringing friends tonite, i'm warning you now she's going to try to ice you out to see how you react. It will be a tough battle to win the friends trust me mannn, they'll be going to the bathroom every other second and dancing together and icing your ass out... A friend would make the deal ALOT better man. Just don't find yourself hanging around the friends all night or you'll find yourself signing your own 'friend' warrant...

I also advise turning the game around on her ass as well, do something unexpected like leave early or when things are at a really high level. When you all are drunk and laughing and getting along, grab the phone make up some excuse and exit outta there. You might not get pusssss$$y tonite, but you're pretty much guaranteeing it for yourself later... trust me


-Cod3r

 

[LegendBoy]

Enjoying advice guys and coder thanks giving me another perspective.

I mean she flirts and send mwa and **** in msgs and then i say you have to wait for tomorow for a kiss and then shes like nah im a good gurl..lol. ye wateva trevor..

I am bound to see somone I know in the club so it won't be all bad.. But Ill try to get a m8 to come out...

 

[DarkLight]

Well, first....... your on a good note. So enjoy that FACT!

I wouldn't trip on her being so "easy"... chicks at that age are just that. There social little babydolls, and everything is a party... and they love it. So enjoy that flow. Its real deal... but its fickle cause there always on the move, here or there.

Personally... I don't know how I feel about bringing a friend. It might just turn into an "us/them" thing. Then the connection to babydoll is going to be that much harder, cause your friend might just be standing there... or, her friends might be pulling her back to "them." If I was you... I would roll solo.

Game her friends up, in charming "I'm the man" delight. Have a fvckin ball w. them. Keep little solid notes of interest in your target here, so she doesn't totally bug out. Maybe some eyes... and a lil smirk. Head nod, like your saying "sup" to the homies... but in G'Suave smooth. Ask her how she's doing, and put your arm around the small of her back. Own it... but in a laid-back G' way. Have fun w. her. BUT... make sure to win her friends over first before you really turn it on her. Then when you mack it into her, she'll be so hungry for it... it'll already be won and over. At that point really connect w. babydoll. She'll be so enamored in your mystique, power and charm... that kiss will be inevitable. She'll feel proud that she brought you, "the man" to her friends outing, and more over... that you hers. She'll want to own that position... the more you Suave/Charming you are. So make sure all the girls are enjoying. They're all your girls... so take care of them. That should be your mindset. Seduce them all, and be able to share that light w. each of them in your interactions. She'll be itching to steal you away. But remember... keep her appeased w. little looks, a smirk. A question of how she's doing. A funny lil play joke thing. Keep her baited. Otherwise that fuel of desire, could turn to jealousy, could turn to... **** him, 2 can play this game. Don't want that, lol.

So suave pimp charm, her gf's. Be the man, that they all can take security in for the night... while enjoying being in your light. You'll create a magnetic seductive frangrance around you... that babydoll will be powerlessly attracted to. Pimp some cute/cool fun w. her... and really connect. The kiss will be inevitable!

Oh ya... and break from them at one point too. Go rap up some other heads, for a little. It will show your unattachment, as well as your social value. Women like a man of social skill. Aka...a cool guy. Doesn't matter if its men or women. Might even want to open up a set for your groups to merge. Her gf's might appreciate it, and it'll take care of them for you to rap w. HB. But if you do start rapping w. another chick... cool. It will only work to your benefit as long as you don't take it to far. Meaning, you don't want her friends to think your an "*******" and then turn against you. Just enough sexy rapport to be able to brush off as "your valuable", and it was nothing.

Peace'