Dilemma

[ANIRBAN]

HI DJ folks...I am in a little bit of worry lately..

I am having a relationship with a great lady..she is nice, caring , loving, not a slut, had only two boyfriends before and conservative to some extent.

The problem is that she is not sexaully adventurous and she is confused in bed and has no idea how to please me..she agrees to whatever way I wanna shag her..but she never takes the initiative or express lust and hot desire for me. When I told her about having sex in the movie hall at the late nite show at the back seat..she was shocked and said that its not love...its lust..I will never degrade mysefl..that shut me up alright

How to bring her out of her shell of shyness and make her more free in bed....she has a lack of experience..but she is a great woman to have...

Any ideas..how can I get her on top and make her bang me with style ?

 

[OneArmDeeJay]

Dude why do you want to make a perfectly GOOD women into a slvt?

If your such a freak find yourself one.

But don't mess with an innocent nice good girl like her.

There are only a few good women like that.


I don't think she's so much confuess when it comes to sex. Its pretty simple.

But what your freaky azz wants probably is.

She's not use to being a slvt so come on man what do you expect?

People STOP trying to turn your nice good girl into a SLVT!

If you want a SLVT find one.

Jeez cause the next thing you want to know his how to train a slvt to be a good girl

 

[sparky1981]

The girl has morals. You can't expect her to drop those. I would say though that she will probaly do anything you want as long as it stays in the bedroom. Try having some porn around as a guide

 

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Originally posted by sparky1981
The girl has morals.

A sexually unadventurous prude has nothing to do with any preconceived society brainwashed ideas you have about "morality". Dont be ridiculous.

Your not going to turn a cold fish into nympho, despite what any B.S your told on T.V etc etc ever never nada zip.

she was shocked and said that its not love...its lust..I will never degrade mysefl

Jeeeezuz could she say anything more chickish, more moronic, more retarded if she tried? What is this b!tch think shes straight out of a fairytale story?

Go find someone who can fullfill you sexually, that is your ONLY option here, no man should tolerate that crap from ANYONE.

 

[sparky1981]

Your not going to turn a cold fish into nympho, despite what any B.S your told on T.V etc etc ever never nada zip.

Actually I don't think your quite onto it. There has been a little known saying around for a while "Its allways the quiet ones you least suspect". It can be applied to girls and sex. Many girls of mine have been quiet in bed, but i have turned a few and given them the bad touch. Like i said try some porn go and from there.

By the way morality is not a preconcieved idea or brainwashing. Its the ability to do the decent thing in an increasingly less decent world even when the rest of the world don't know or care.
So maybe i used it in the wrong context in my first post

 

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Originally posted by sparky1981
Many girls of mine have been quiet in bed, but i have turned a few and given them the bad touch. Like i said try some porn go and from there.

So your saying a chick youve been boning for awhile whos proven herself to be a cold fish in the sack has all of a sudden turned her whole sexual nature around from something as simple as watching porn etc? I call bullsh!t.

Originally posted by sparky1981

So maybe i used it in the wrong context in my first post

Yes you did, "morality" has nothing to do with how much a chick does or doesnt enjoy sex or whatever misconceived sexual hangups she might have, NOTHING.

 

[TxCowboy]

Originally posted by ANIRBAN

The problem is that she is not sexaully adventurous and she is confused in bed and has no idea how to please me..

she has a lack of experience..but she is a great woman to have...

WTF! WTF ! - O damn , the poor h0 doesnt know how to please you in bed ... lets just cry about it on sosuave ...

No more drugs for this guy !

 

[everywomanshero]

lol

I'm not sure I'd really care. If she does whatever you say to please you, I'd just stick something in her mouth to shut her up. lol. At least you won't get her pregnant.....


Seriously, maybe you could get some games. Some women seem to like corny stuff like blindfolds and handcuffs, although I find that too corny to field test, sorry. I've watched porn on a portable DVD player with lots of women. I've taken women to couples only sex clubs. I've bought sex games at the mall (look in Spencer's type stores). You've got to create an environment where she won't feel cheap. Obviously the sex club is a good 6 months away

What about a nice hotel room in the city? Perhaps, you can create a nice atmosphere where she'll feel it's OK to let loose. If she's of age, you can also let her have some wine. Most times women will feel more comfortable if they can blame it on something like alcohol even if she's just had one drink. If she pretends to be tipsy, don't correct her! I've actually seen an idiot do that before and totally blow the state.

I've ran into girls that didn't do much before too. To be honest, I just went with it. I guess I'm not very picky as long as someone is feeding me, sexing me, and kissing my rear.