Dilemma

[jlazz]

Okay...recently my friend broke up with his girlfriend who i've been talking to on AIM with. Anyway, she's always saying how she thinks i'm really hot based on my pictures. We've never met, just seen each others pictures and talked on AIM. She seems pretty cool and we can relate to a lot. I can tell she has the hots for me based on personality and my looks already. I was planning on inviting her out on a date, but the thing is...she lives like 20 minutes away (drive)..I don't have a license and I don't want my parents knowing I'm going on a date. This will be my first since 7th grade (i'm going to be a senior soon). I have no experience and kind of embarrassed to tell my parents I'm going on a date. Anyway, she says she has a friend who gives her a ride whenever she wants. I was thinking maybe he can bring his girlfriend and we double date. I just think its kind of akward because I've never met any of these people. Do you think it'll be alright? If not, I was thinking movies and have her friend drive us and whatnot. I want to make a move on her to gain some experience and boost my confidence. She's experienced (4 guys and has had sex w/ them) I lied and said i've had sex w/ 3 (my ex's...I've never had a serious girlfriend or hooked up with anyone). She seems like a girl I could have a relationship with...but someone who could also be a friend with benefits. Anyway, do you think I should ask her out on a date to the movies and her friend and her pick me up? It just seems kind of weird. Also, if we do go on a date...I plan on flirting here and there..throwing some ****y funny (she already thinks I'm funny and she thinks I have confidence...cause my looks and my personality). So I plan to flirt (kino and whatnot) and see where it leads to during the movie (making out). I've never made out w/ a girl before though so would it be obvious? Do I just go with the flow? Anyway thanks and sorry for the long post.

 

[08aisaac]

Man you fukked up when you lied. lol. Don't lie. Didn't your parents ever teach you that? You can always try to hide the truth or whatever. lol.

 

[jlazz]

Well I asked a lot of people's opinions on some board and they all said "never admit to being a virgin..." Anyway do you have advice for me on the rest of my post? Date, getting through parents and whatnot.

 

[Thraxeh]

Originally posted by jlazz
and they all said "never admit to being a virgin..."

ok, but maybe say i 've ****ed 1, not 3.

now she knows u have at least 3 girls experience, if u said once, then at least theres room for improvement.


just tell ur parents. what will they do ? ur 17.

 

[MrS]

If you get along with your parents, be honest, and be a bit embarassed if you want, they'll be lenient. Can't guarantee it.
And yeah, you shoulda just dodged the question like a true DJ, with a quip. But it's alright, things won't come crashing down because of that.
Double date idea sounds good, go for a fun date, impress them all.

Good luck!

 

[dannowillbookem]

lol yeah shoulda said something like "well i'm not quite the ***** you are" lol u seem a little nervous but just keep up little stuff like that and remember that she's on a date with you, ur not on a date with her. shes should be honored, and with a smile i usually tell my dates that (if she does something negative i.e. call u an ass or something, feed her one of my favorite lines: there are sports illustrated swimsuit models sitting at home, right now, waiting for my call, and u have the audacity to say that kinda thing? lol) but u know be rediculously confident and have a kinda "i'm just messing" smile on ur face the entire time. as for making out, well lately i've been having trouble with that myself (read any of my other posts) so just ask ac/dc and he'll give u some good tips.