"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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well lemme start of saying that i am not exactly a player... back few months ago i used to know this girl and we were kind of toghether on and off not exactly a gf and bf and she moved to another state and stayed there so i visited her once we had a blast together and all.... few months passed by but we still keep in touch and just talk on the phone like frineds... well couple dayz ago she called me and sayed she wanted to visit me over the next weekend and i sayed sure.... well heres a ****ty part i have been out with this girl for couple of dates and when everything is about to get interesting this happends... so i am stuck between this to girls.... tell you the truth i like the one thats about to visit me.... but how should i act like shes just ,my friend but tell you the truth i want to get close to this girl and at the moment i am kind seeing this other one.... damn what should i do... i cant tell her not to come

help!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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uhm... there's a problem here?:eek:
 
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Alen-Delon

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Well i guess nobody has any advice for me
 
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Is it just me or is this too obvious?
Tell the girl you have dated recently you're doing something else this weekend. Have the girl over and see how it works?

None of them are your g/f yet so what's the big deal? You're a free man and you have the right to explore.
 
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Originally posted by Alen-Delon
Well i guess nobody has any advice for me
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My Advice:
Join boot camp!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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