"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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well lemme start of saying that i am not exactly a player... back few months ago i used to know this girl and we were kind of toghether on and off not exactly a gf and bf and she moved to another state and stayed there so i visited her once we had a blast together and all.... few months passed by but we still keep in touch and just talk on the phone like frineds... well couple dayz ago she called me and sayed she wanted to visit me over the next weekend and i sayed sure.... well heres a ****ty part i have been out with this girl for couple of dates and when everything is about to get interesting this happends... so i am stuck between this to girls.... tell you the truth i like the one thats about to visit me.... but how should i act like shes just ,my friend but tell you the truth i want to get close to this girl and at the moment i am kind seeing this other one.... damn what should i do... i cant tell her not to come

help!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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uhm... there's a problem here?:eek:
 
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Well i guess nobody has any advice for me
 
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Is it just me or is this too obvious?
Tell the girl you have dated recently you're doing something else this weekend. Have the girl over and see how it works?

None of them are your g/f yet so what's the big deal? You're a free man and you have the right to explore.
 
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Originally posted by Alen-Delon
Well i guess nobody has any advice for me
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My Advice:
Join boot camp!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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