"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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'If u only knew how much I hated u For every motha****in thing u ever put us through Then I wouldnt be standin here cryin over u"

im sick of it, sick of bittches. sick of girls. sick of fuking *****, well not that,

sick of relationships, sick of fuking games. sick of flake. sick of putting my game on, i dont give a fuk anymore about any girl. i treat them all the same. even the good dik suking ones.

it kills me. i dont knoW WHY. all i want in my life is to suceed in life and have a GOOD marriage in the furture without rushing. with a loving wife and a few kids. thats all but how the fuk am i going to find a girl, im starting to see that all girls are fuked up. i got into a club the other day. i seen 3 girls in line. checking me and my friends out. eyeing us.. so im like nice nice im not even in the club yet and i got one already.. so i gamed her.. applied kino.. danced a lil then after shes like i gotta go find my friend.. then after i seen her get picked up by her bf.. im like FUKING *****. she had a bf. it made me sick to my stomach., i wish i never did what i did. even though im single and shes not, i gave her what she wanted. fukin bittch.

my last ex Rebounded me, stuck in the **** hole for 5 months.. back and forth with her.. id cut contact off. she would come back.. then apply mix singals two weeks later after first contact.. so i told her to fuk off and my final good byes.. but it hurts. all those good times we had.

im fuked up. been fuked up for ever, i can control my emotions but its bugging and PISSING ME the fuk off.. that i cant let go of her memories. i deleted every fuking pic of her. every little thing. i go out. but yet i dont wanna sarge cuz all girls make me sick. bunch of incesure bi8tches who dont know what color of dik they want

i dont want any relationships. at all. i got my boys and we got our cars.
im either working or at school or at the gym. im never alone at home and im always doing something but just i get pissed off.

on how i let a ho DO me like that. how could i let her do me like that..
how come i didnt see it from the beginning. yet ppl still told me but i wanted to see it for my self.. i learned lots and gained experiences but i wanna forget about her. period.

and she will contact me either one way or another. like she alway does. and im willing to give it to her GOOD.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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i got into a club the other day.
How about looking for women in respectable places ??

Also, the more frustrated you get, the worst your situation will become...

Relax


-Cod3r
 

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Cod3r said:
How about looking for women in respectable places ??

Also, the more frustrated you get, the worst your situation will become...

Relax


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i never was looking for woman. i was at the club just chillin wiht my boys and i caught her looking at me. so i made a few moves. never had intentions to get her number... but it makes me sick.. girl goes to the club.. gets slutty then gets picked up by her bf.. like fuking ***** i wish i could slap the ****tt out of her
 

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^ ^ Again, you saw this at a CLUB...

Wat kind of women frequent clubs ?? Slvts and wh0res and girls seeking to leave the cruel reality of their life and get drunk and mess around with random guys. 90% of females go to clubs to relax and do things they normally wouldn't do. You're not getting real life at a club, its all FAKE...

Don't judge all women from a few beeotches u seen at a club...

You're obviously having a hard time right now, but relax... seriously



-Cod3r
 

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^ ^ Again, you saw this at a CLUB...

Wat kind of women frequent clubs ?? Slvts and wh0res and girls seeking to leave the cruel reality of their life and get drunk and mess around with random guys. 90% of females go to clubs to relax and do things they normally wouldn't do. You're not getting real life at a club, its all FAKE...

Don't judge all women from a few beeotches u seen at a club...

You're obviously having a hard time right now, but relax... seriously



-Cod3r
i know i know. i need to relax. im trying too. im struggling not to snap

i got enough family and friends to support for not to snap

but it eats me inside. on how a girl can even do that, shes not slutty and ****.. she got good intentions.. never disrespected me.. only a few times but when i put my foot down, she never gave me a second reason to do it agian. she was confident as mofo. but why the fulk would she rebound me..

and gives me the same bull**** reason all the time.. "i got too much bs going on with skool and work and i dont wanna be wit anyone" she put me on the back burner but i denied it. refused to be placed on the back burner.

its like.. she would come back to me. we would start talking. i'd make her laugh ALOt. we would both be enjoying talking. and wee would use the same inside jokes we used as we went out.. then she would give me singals like lyrics of songs in her nickname on msn. songs like "curious" by tony yayo,

and then one time she called me in the morning to wake me up at 8.. she used to do that when we went out.. its fuked. then when i move in. she puts a wall up and acts aloof. then if i ignore her for two weeks straight, then she will say somehting like whats up..

so i was sick of it. it has been going on for more than 5 months.

I know all girls arent the same but im going on a freaking "hating all brown girl" streak for some reason
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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SuckmyCock said:
girls at a club are not worth it, usually are headcases
amen to that!

nice nickname too man haha props
 

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Look here bro...

This is classic with all break-ups. I broke up with my girl and she kept contacting me for a while and kept my feelings up and even had me hoping we'd get back together until she told me she had a new boyfriend. At that point I knew it was time to move on and I did, but she didn't stop contacting me...

I fell into the trap and ended up fvcking her for a few months while she was with the new boyfriend (fvcked up ain't it ?) then when I got feelinns and asked her to leave him, she agreed she would, but she never did. It ate me up inside for a while but I decided to finally move on forever and I deleted her number, changed my number and that was the last I ever heard of her...

You have to decide to get over her, once and for all... move on with your life


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Cod3r said:
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You have to decide to get over her, once and for all... move on with your life


-Cod3r
i'd LOVE too and i want too. but i'll either end up talking to my self into trying again to work it out because my feelings will get all caught up

i dont want her back. i dont want to think about her. i dont want to even see her. i dont want any sort of conections between me and her.
its just everytime a song plays on. or i see a couple i think of those good times i had wit her and it makes me happy. then out of no where i get pissed. cuz what she put me through. i didnt derverse it. i didnt give her any reason to get mad at me. i never cheated on anyone in my life.

Why she did do it?. ieven took things slow wit her. seen her once a every 1.5-2 weeks. first kiss was like after 3 weeks

i checked her out good for any mind games or bull****
she never even used me for rides. suprisensly
 

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^ ^ Stop posting threads about her for one...

After some time passes, you'll be good as new... complaining about another b!tch u met lol


-Cod3r
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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After some time passes, you'll be good as new... complaining about another b!tch u met lol
amen! haha

i try to stop posting ****.

but what can i do besides time fly by? i try to keep myself bussy. i work close to 58 hours every two weeks plus basketball practices and then if i got spare time im at the gym

i try spin more plates but i aint looking for no girl. so im just tryin to fuk anything i can
 

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Hey I feel for you man. The same thing happened to me. I was with a girl who I cared about was a head case so I broke it off. Still had feelings for her though. She was always calling me and then all of a sudden stopped. I later found out she was dating one of my coworkers. Can you believe that no respect. I am 30 years old and feel the same way as you do. fvck all girls.
 
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