You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
What about Emma Watson's He for She campaign?Desdinova said:Independent, strong women don't need a man to stick up for them. Society told me so.
I had to google her to see remind myself what she looks like, and I have to ask - what in God's feminist polluted green Earth are you talking about??? "Flat"???PairPlusRoyalFlush said:Emma watson and her flat ass and chest make me sick
Same happend to me. I would listen to her push him and push him and push him, "your a liar, bla bla bla" he would ignore her eventually he would say " stop" " leave me alone" "you better stop " (this was her warning) then crack, one smack and she start.crying loudly. In the past I would have felt bad for her, but I was just mad that its 11pm and I had to work at 6 am. Also on the street I saw.to couples kind of arguing, no hitting, she p1ssed dude off, she looked.at me like she was in need of help, but thats just her baiting me to white knight. Women are very manipulative and deceptive, just because they get hit doesnt mean they are innocent. Equal rights now. When men are abused, especially in marriages, such as using sex as.a.tool (that's abuse) or any other forum of manipulation like tSgtSplacker said:I would overhear my neighbor fighting with his girl and it was like this. The things she told him were just total disrespectful bait. Dudes now in jail for 4 or more years for flipping out and attacking her with a piece of glass.
Moral of the story: Keep woman at arms length. That dime your nervous to talk to might be someones bane. Let them in slowly and reject as soon as things start to sour. you above all else...
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
This.PairPlusRoyalFlush said:Would you step in to intervene if you saw a woman slapping the sh!t out of her man?
YawataNoKami said:This.
Gentlemen, white knightism is a serious condition. Suppress your inner white knight.
Yeep. I got the same memo from society.Desdinova said:Independent, strong women don't need a man to stick up for them. Society told me so.
narcissist said:If being a white knight is wanting to help someone who is actually being abused then, i dont care if im a white knight.
White knighting is coming to the aid of a woman when they don't need it, and they simply accept your white-knighting because they like the attention. But if a woman is being raped/abused I wouldnt consider it whiteknighting to go intervene and help you fellow human being.
Would you all help a child if they were being abused?
Would you all help the elderly if they were being abused?
Would you help an animal if they were being abused?
Would you help a disabled person if they were being abused?
I would expect most of you would intervene on these, but simply because its a woman being abused by a man in a relationship you turn a blind eye because its not "alpha." And ya'll automatically assume the violence is justified. lawl what?
Whoever said this site was turning into anti-women is completely fvcking right.
YawataNoKami said:Would you all help a child if they were being abused?
Define abuse.
Would you all help the elderly if they were being abused?
An old man........hell yeah.
Would you help an animal if they were being abused?
100 times yes, specially dogs.
Would you help a disabled person if they were being abused?
A disabled man ; yes.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
MMM. I Wouldn't say this is a troll per se.. Just someone who hasn't swallowed the red pill yet.narcissist said:troll is obvious
I don't care who's "red pill d*ck" is smaller or bigger, no one should ever be physically attacked and if you turn a blind eye simply because you think "they deserved it" then you are a fvcking idiot. Especially with women, "she disrespected me so I slapped her!" No she disrespected you because you both have twisted morales and you have absolutely no idea how to handle yourself or your emotions. Now if were talking military Intel then that's a different story.logicallefty said:MMM. I Wouldn't say this is a troll per se.. Just someone who hasn't swallowed the red pill yet.
I think we have gone too far into gynoculture such that every unwanted physical contact is necessarily "abusive." Almost all physical altercations I've seen in life have been 1. none of my business, 2. I don't have enough facts to understand the situation in context, 3. the contact was relatively minor and presented no danger of material bodily harm. I am not the arbitrator of right and wrong, and appreciate others having the same view of things where me and my actions are concerned.Frayzer said:If it's REALLY okay with your own morales to leave someone getting attacked simply because of their gender then I'm going to question you as a person.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
It's obvious your not an American. Your problem is not my problem. I can choose to help You, its wrong for you to expect anything from any one.Frayzer said:Dasein you're like a robot I swear... BEEP BEEP Target did not do x so I will not engage BEEEEEP... But I do agree with the steps for your own safety however. I wouldn't just automatically retaliate.
When somebody attacks someone in broad daylight for every one to see and hear then that becomes everyone's issue. Something that should probably be dealt with in private is instead being dealt with in public. Call it a time and a place.