"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Dilema

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Ok between a rock and a hard spot here.

I witnessed one of my friends making out and finger banging another one of my friends girlfriend of 2 years.

These two guys aren't "friends" per say, they know each other through me.

What do I do, they are both my friends?

Crazy azz women give me heartache even when I am not dating them :)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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biker_gixxer

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Do they know you caught them?
 

biker_gixxer

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Tell them they need to come clean about what happened, or you will. If it comes out to your other friend that you knew, but didn't say anything.....
 

ethnomethodologist

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Two who know a secret is one too many. Three is sacrelage.

You have three options. The most basic ones.

...Evil, good, or neutral...?

Evil- Tell the gy to give you money, and convince the girl to give you some of dat azz

Good-Tell your friend what your going to do, than tell your other friend, hope everything blows over...

Neutral-pretend you never saw a thing, deny deny deny... this is leaning to the evil side, and good at the same time.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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