I was seeing a woman on and off for a few years, we would hook up maybe 1-2 times a year (if that). Last time I saw her in Oct 2021 she had a wand, a proper powerful mofo and it desensitised her vag to the point I would hurt my hand how rough and hard she wanted it pressed on her. It was like she had ruined her own **** with overstimulation (kinda the same as guys masturbating I reckon) I told her she needs to stop using it.
My current girl doesn't use toys and has told me "no" when I suggested I get something for her. Is it a bad idea for me to get her a vibrator? I can make her *** quickly but sometimes I can't be bothered, I have no desire to get her off, especially if I've nut. Finger/tongue on **** gets boring/monotonous. Usually, I make her *** first then smash away but wouldn't a toy just make it easier? Or would it make her desire me less? Is it a bad idea/if it ain't broke don't fix it kind of thing here?
Women (apart from the one with the wand) have never used or talked about using toys during sex with me.
My current girl doesn't use toys and has told me "no" when I suggested I get something for her. Is it a bad idea for me to get her a vibrator? I can make her *** quickly but sometimes I can't be bothered, I have no desire to get her off, especially if I've nut. Finger/tongue on **** gets boring/monotonous. Usually, I make her *** first then smash away but wouldn't a toy just make it easier? Or would it make her desire me less? Is it a bad idea/if it ain't broke don't fix it kind of thing here?
Women (apart from the one with the wand) have never used or talked about using toys during sex with me.
