"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Well, this success stories forum seems to always be lacking so I figured I'd post this when I normally wouldn't :p

As some of you know, I've been working on self-improvement (based in part on this site), not actively pursuing dating, in preparation for moving to a new town. I've been much more outgoing with talking to people. It's great to start over when you can scrap that shy antisocial afc label.

So, the success:

Cute girl at work, one of these that is really nice, great smile, good convo, and doesn't show off her body (yet you can still tell it's nice). Typical nice girl, good dating material IMO.

Now I know what people think about dating girls from work, BUT this is only a summer job. I don't think the normal rules apply here, and we don't work together so much, just the same building.

Ok, enough already you say, I'm babbling. I had to meet with someone before I left work today, and I saw her starting to walk out to leave for the day so I just stopped her and said, "I need to talk to you for a min before you go." *she gives questioning look* and I went right back to my meeting and ignored that she was waiting for me. :p

So I get up, grab my stuff and walk out with her and get the number. She had to fumble through her bag to get paper to write it on =)

It's been said before, but the point is, if I didn't ask, I wouldn't have ever had a chance.



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"There are no such things as mixed signals when it comes to women, there is reality and what the guy wants to be reality." - Don Phenom

Who wants to be a DJ when you can be so much more?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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