"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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digits!!! :)

wonderboy040587

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yey i got a phone number... it's been a while since i got the last phone number ... anyways went to a cafe, there was a cute girl working behind the counter, and there wasn't alotta ppl in the cafe, anyways i went up couple times to buy stuff, and did EC for a while and smile.... and when there was no ppl at the counter (so she wasn't busy) i walked up to her, and this is how it went

wonder (me) : excuse me. can i ask u a question?
her: yes ( turns around and comes up 2 me)
wonder: do i have to buy something else to talk to you?
her: (blushes, turns red lol) no...
wonder: good cuz i'm running out of cash here...
her:(still blushing)
wonder: GOD! you already started blushing, i think i should just walk away, and let you get some air...
her: (laughs) ....
and we start talking for about 5-10 minutes about her family, and the boring town that we live in and so on... and then my friend called me out of the cafe and told me to hurry up, anyways i said i had to run and left the cafe running, anyways i walked away from the cafe about 5 min to look at something that my friend wanted to show me... and then i went back to the cafe and i said:

her: hey
me: u know i wouldn't walk back down here, if u weren't this cute..
her: (blushes)
me: well i gotta run, but we should hang out in this "boring" town and maybe u can have some fun. do u have an email?
her: yes(and starts to write it down and while she's writing it down, i tell her to put down the phone # { thnx to david for this tip, always works}) anyways and i walk away


i wrote this guys, cuz after a while i have my confidence back, i've been away from DJing since school started but i'm feeling good again

and any comments or suggestions to improve my game?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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JasonR

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congratulations on getting the number, but i cant help but see that you left, and then came back. now i know that it was for a genuine reason, but to her it might seem like you were a little scared to ask and your friend convinced you to ask or something.

Also, asking for an email address, to me seems a little insecure and a bit of a cop out, as apposed to simply asking for her number right out.

but this is me, and im not pro with the ladies. you got the number, thats all that matters at the moment, but dont get hooked on her, get other numbers, get dating as many women as you can.
 

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i believe you handled that well, in your own unique way... you deserve credit for that. well done mate!
 

wonderboy040587

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thank you guys... well jason , yes i left for a reason but i had to go out, and also you are rite on the email thing but i dunno i've been using it for a while, but i guess i can ask ppl for numbers directly...
also thanks jakeyboy for ur comment

i have started reading the bible and the high school bible, i'm not even half way thru but it's already helping... lol
 

JasonR

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if it works, dont change what you're doing.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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