"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Difficult B!tch

superchristx

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This girl is a Friend of a Friend, she's a very confrontational and difficult person, as am I. Really. she's so tough that I think it gets in her way, prevents her from meeting men. As a result, she's pretty hot but starved for ****.

So starved, in fact, that she's gone dyke. Not really really dyke, bisexual I suppose. It felt pretty transparent when she was making out with her girlfriend earlier tonight in DuPont.

This girl has been very mean and aggressive from the start, she embarrassed me publicly when I first met her, but no matter how much she affected me deep-down, I played it cool on the surface. My question, what is the appropriate approach for a super-tough *****? Just give me a one-word response, "pook" or "anti-dump" or whatever propaganda you b1tches spew will do.

I guess basically my question is, should I put up walls, or be bold and say what we're both (I reckon) thinking? I can play hard-to-get until hell freezes over, really it's easier to be untouchable than to revel my interest. But really I think her and I would be perfect for eachother, both really really tough but in need of a fundamental connection. Thanks in advance for any response.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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superchristx said:
This girl is a Friend of a Friend, she's a very confrontational and difficult person, as am I. Really. she's so tough that I think it gets in her way, prevents her from meeting men. As a result, she's pretty hot but starved for ****.

So starved, in fact, that she's gone dyke. Not really really dyke, bisexual I suppose. It felt pretty transparent when she was making out with her girlfriend earlier tonight in DuPont.

This girl has been very mean and aggressive from the start, she embarrassed me publicly when I first met her, but no matter how much she affected me deep-down, I played it cool on the surface. My question, what is the appropriate approach for a super-tough *****? Just give me a one-word response, "pook" or "anti-dump" or whatever propaganda you b1tches spew will do.

I guess basically my question is, should I put up walls, or be bold and say what we're both (I reckon) thinking? I can play hard-to-get until hell freezes over, really it's easier to be untouchable than to revel my interest. But really I think her and I would be perfect for eachother, both really really tough but in need of a fundamental connection. Thanks in advance for any response.
LoL, this is funny because ive been kind of in the same situation. This girl i know hates me for no reason and me and her get into arguments for no reason. she treats me so bad for no reason!. tries to make me look like a fool in public. shes hot though and one day i was like okay.....Time to bring out the playboy status on her. I started sweet talking to her no matter what she said to me. One night on AIM i IMed her...

Me: hey, You looked so sexy tonight when i saw you.

Her: Really? :) Like what? what did you like?

Me: Everything, You were smelling good took. Really sexy,

her: :)


See? she needs to get sweet talked and then BANGED!!! like like a comment smashing into the ground! her tune will change.
 

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Alright I just came back home from watching UFC fight in a bar so I am not going easy on you.

superchristx said:
she's a very confrontational and difficult person.
Strike one!

superchristx said:
So starved, in fact, that she's gone dyke
strike two!

superchristx said:
This girl has been very mean and aggressive from the start, she embarrassed me publicly when I first met her
STRIKE THREE!!! YOOOOURRRRR OUT!!!!!


superchristx said:
Just give me a one-word response, "pook" or "anti-dump" or whatever propaganda you b1tches spew will do.
So from your story I get that this b1tch is a difficult dyke who has been very mean to you, embrassed you in public yet you are willing to give it a try because SHE IS HOT??!!

You need a kick in the ass for not having self respect or dignity :kick:
 
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Don't take it personal kid - homo lesbos hate all men!! They tend to pick on men they know they can intimidate - this here is your real problem!!

Say "NO" to ho-mos!!!
 

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Okay, thanks for setting me straight. Get it, straight? Ha ha ha ha. I still think there's something there, but I'll go plant some other seeds. Word up guys, nice speedy and brutally honest response.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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'This girl has been very mean and aggressive from the start, she embarrassed me publicly when I first met her, but no matter how much she affected me deep-down, I played it cool on the surface.'

Instead, raise your eyebrow, call her on her sh!t, and turn your back. How's a ho supposed to know from the get-go without a man to say 'no'? She just needs training.
 

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superchristx said:
This girl is a Friend of a Friend, she's a very confrontational and difficult person, as am I. Really. she's so tough that I think it gets in her way, prevents her from meeting men. As a result, she's pretty hot but starved for ****.

So starved, in fact, that she's gone dyke. Not really really dyke, bisexual I suppose. It felt pretty transparent when she was making out with her girlfriend earlier tonight in DuPont.

This girl has been very mean and aggressive from the start, she embarrassed me publicly when I first met her, but no matter how much she affected me deep-down, I played it cool on the surface. My question, what is the appropriate approach for a super-tough *****? Just give me a one-word response, "pook" or "anti-dump" or whatever propaganda you b1tches spew will do.

I guess basically my question is, should I put up walls, or be bold and say what we're both (I reckon) thinking? I can play hard-to-get until hell freezes over, really it's easier to be untouchable than to revel my interest. But really I think her and I would be perfect for eachother, both really really tough but in need of a fundamental connection. Thanks in advance for any response.
Sounds like she got borderline personality disorder. I bet she's a feminist too!

The arguments and confrontational behavior are for attention, a b!tch like this needs to be ignored completely. This will really piss her off when you do this, more than any comeback that you could possibly throw at her. If she tries to say something to you, walk away from her while she's in mid sentence, or if you can't do that, just cut her off and begin a conversation with your friend.

But the best thing you can do is avoid her altogether. That is if you can help it. But don't attempt to argue with her back.
 

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Man why the fck do you guys go after such impossible b!tches?
 

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Serialized3 said:
Man why the fck do you guys go after such impossible b!tches?
GOOD QUESTION!!!!!!
 

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I think the question you need to be asking yourself is why you are attracted to such a negative person in the first place?

Are you positive that you aren't behaving in a way that would cause women to behave negatively? If you are certain you aren't, then you really need to question why you would even want to pursue women like that. Isn't doing so exactly the same as when women go for jerks who treat them badly?

Try making a list of the traits you like in a woman and next to it make a list of the traits you don't like. When you meet every female, make a conscious effort to look for signs of her having the positive traits vs the negative traits. It will help you avoid pursuing women that you really don't actually like.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Serialized3 said:
Man why the fck do you guys go after such impossible b!tches?
Not impossible.

Sounds like a chick I know who hangs with nothing but guys and always yelling and wanting to fight...But she's hot as hell.

Your best bet is be dominant. Strong frame, Eye contact, voice, body language, etc. Caveman the **** out of her, dominant her world. They will like that because most guys are intimidated by them an now they want to be more submissive. Just assert your reality and you should be good.
 

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Distant Light said:
Not impossible.

Sounds like a chick I know who hangs with nothing but guys and always yelling and wanting to fight...But she's hot as hell.

Your best bet is be dominant. Strong frame, Eye contact, voice, body language, etc. Caveman the **** out of her, dominant her world. They will like that because most guys are intimidated by them an now they want to be more submissive. Just assert your reality and you should be good.
Amen brother, I know this type of chick like the back of my hand. They can be very seductive because they're so goofy and you think that it should be very easy to get into her pants, but it's not, because she's been around the block a few times. She knows or has FELT the intense desire us guys want (which is SEX) and she'll dangle that carrot over us and trick us again and again. On a whim, she'll bend down low and move her a$$ ******d like a tittydancer and walk away or fall into and press herself up against a door as your walking behind her just to see if she can tempt you or get a reaction out of you (the best thing to do here is to not have a reaction and continue about your business, or to look at her like she's nasty or morally deficient). Go and talk to other girls as much as you can in front of her because this one's an Attention WH0RE. She'll wanta know about your family, what you're doing over the holidays etc. Tell her that she's already asked you (whatever question she's asking you) before and to go find a boyfriend or something to occupy her life.
 

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Distant Light said:
Not impossible.
I'm not saying impossible to game, I'm saying impossible to deal with. If some chick was rude to me in public, cold and frigid, possibly a dyke, and just overall a b!tch, I wouldn't even want to deal with her, no matter if she was the hottest broad in the world.
 

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Serialized3 said:
I'm not saying impossible to game, I'm saying impossible to deal with. If some chick was rude to me in public, cold and frigid, possibly a dyke, and just overall a b!tch, I wouldn't even want to deal with her, no matter if she was the hottest broad in the world.
Exactly!!!!! Why make life difficult on yourself???
 

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superchristx said:
...she's gone dyke. Not really really dyke, bisexual I suppose. It felt pretty transparent when she was making out with her girlfriend earlier tonight in DuPont...

...I guess basically my question is, should I put up walls, or be bold and say what we're both (I reckon) thinking? I can play hard-to-get until hell freezes over, really it's easier to be untouchable than to revel my interest. But really I think her and I would be perfect for eachother, both really really tough but in need of a fundamental connection. Thanks in advance for any response.
maybe you should try getting some implants and wear a dress
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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