"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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differing the approaches !!!!!!!!!!!

ALPHAROMEO

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pretend you re a FRENCHMAN
walk up to a woman and say " i am french i don t understand what BURRITOS are ( show her your shopping list )

she ll take you to the NATCHOS section

you thank her and leave

later on 5 minutes later you run into her " by mistake "

you tell her
' there s this other article or item i can t make sense of 'whatever something unusual but american in style "

she ll take you where the item belongs while you accompany her you can always ask her a few Qs about the resquested article


now you ve approached the same woman twice got a bit conversational with her each time ( but not too much ) You established some kind of familiarity without trying too hard
now you thank her and offere to trade digits


pretending you re foreign esp FRENCH ll make you more attractive
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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When do you blow the illusion and disappoint her with the American accent?
 

horaholic

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I'll pretend Im French: then approach a chick and ask her if she knows any single men!:D

PS: Theres a place called the TIPS section. look into it.
 

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Nah it's pretty good this didn't get into the tips ;)
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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