"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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different ways to lift?

nosmirk

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okay, i have heard of these 3 different ways to lift:

1. heavy weight, almost near your 1 rep max. for 1-5 reps

2. your normal weight, 75-80% of 1 rep max. the usual 8-12 reps

3. much lighter. not sure of % and number of reps, but i figure 50% and 12 reps?


now apparent these 3 methods have different effects.

would someone care to clarify these methods and their effectiveness?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Skilla_Staz

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1. Mainly strength, but you will gain some good size. It won't just be "beach muscle". Think, powerlifters, strongmen, etc. (Ignore the whole body composition sh*t. Many of those guys don't give a f*ck about bf%. Pay attention to the strength and overall size of those bad mother f*ckers)

2. Generally "beach muscle". Good deal of muscular hypertrophy but it's not as strong due to the lighter weights used. It looks pretty, though. Think bodybuilders and your average teen lifter.

3. Endurance. You won't gain a whole lot of size like this. Think soccer/world football players?
 

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the three 'ways' you've listed are all individually suboptimal for the average lifter.

most of us experience a good balance between size & strength using 2 or 3 sets of 5-8 reps for most exercises after warming up adequately (which is nearly always more sets & reps of lighter weight than you think). you can get your beach muscle faster (if that's your thing) & it sticks around more permanently this way.

some advocate using some or all of these in particular combinations to hit your muscles in different ways through a one or two week cycle. this is certainly unnecessary for beginning and intermediate lifters who should focus primarily on building strength in the core, back, and legs using big ass compound lifts with the heaviest weight they can safely mange and still execute proper form.

all of that said, nutrition & rest are more important than rep range, since you grow when you're outside the gym.
 

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Another: 60% of your 1 rep maximum can be done for 2-3 reps on exercises like the Olympic lifts, to work on explosiveness. The reps are low like this to be able to do them as explosively as possible but maintaining good form throughout.

Light weights high reps work on your endurance. Like very low weight squats for 20-25 reps work your stamina well, example.
 
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