Different rules for good looking DJs?

[DanelMadr]

!This is not Looks do/does not matter thread!

Im only asking You good looking, charismatic DJs what is different for you in the dating arena?

In my case girls are extremely paranoid and think Im not interested and dont want to end up with a broken heart. But I know if I would assure them of my intentions (spill my feelings...blah) I would be another wussy (and rejected/friend) instantly (fortunatelly I have some mental bloc....I dont talk about my feelings lol).

Some experience?

 

[banGbro]

fvck its good to be ugly, god loves ugly

 

[Babnik]

!This is not Looks do/does not matter thread!

Im only asking You good looking, charismatic DJs what is different for you in the dating arena?

In my case girls are extremely paranoid and think Im not interested and dont want to end up with a broken heart. But I know if I would assure them of my intentions (spill my feelings...blah) I would be another wussy (and rejected/friend) instantly (fortunatelly I have some mental bloc....I dont talk about my feelings lol).

Some experience?

Then show interest in them! Don't get eager, but do show interest. Just ask them questions and talk to them and kino them and other things, but do it in a manly way.

 

[Nighthawk]

It's like playing a video game on easy mode. With cheats enabled. But you can still crash and burn easily if you're a retard.

I'm 38 and still one sexy mother****er, but one difference I've noticed is I used to get even more attention when I used to dress more flamboyantly. I might even post a photo of my late-eighties Zodiac Mindwarp look.

 

[BrokenLeftWing]

Who decided whats "good looking"?

 

[Babnik]

Who decided whats "good looking"?

Women and I would actually trust them on that one.

 

[God_of_getting_layed]

Who decided whats "good looking"?

ahem....

what is "good looking" is subjective. One woman's hot guy is another's ugly guy.

But its not totally random. THeres a certain facial structure, body type, a certain "look" that more women find attractive versus other facial structures/bodytypes/"look" that very few women will find attractive. But overall, no matter what you look like (unless youre just hideous looking), youll have some women who find you attractive, and some who find you ugly. Some guys look a way that cause them to just fair better than others.

How can you tell if your "good looking"?, well, one way is to have a bunch of women rate you, and calculate your average score. THe average score is a good way to tell if you "fair well" or "fair poorly" when it comes to the chances of a woman finding you as attractive, becuase, its a fact women's opinion's vary. some guys who look like a 21 year old rodney danger field will probably get an average aroun 4. But guys who look like Orlando Bloom, will get an average score near 9. As you can see, the guy who looks like Bloom would have more women finding him attractive than the Dangerfield look alike. Becuase there is some subjectivity to what is "good looking", both would experience some women considering them as "ugly" and both would experience some as considering them "good looking",(the bloom lookalike would get this alot).

 

[Kev07]

looks go both ways.

you know how if an ugly/fat girl will likely annoy you quicker than a hot girl? same thing for girls.

 

[BrokenLeftWing]

ahem....

what is "good looking" is subjective. One woman's hot guy is another's ugly guy.

But its not totally random. THeres a certain facial structure, body type, a certain "look" that more women find attractive versus other facial structures/bodytypes/"look" that very few women will find attractive. But overall, no matter what you look like (unless youre just hideous looking), youll have some women who find you attractive, and some who find you ugly. Some guys look a way that cause them to just fair better than others.

How can you tell if your "good looking"?, well, one way is to have a bunch of women rate you, and calculate your average score. THe average score is a good way to tell if you "fair well" or "fair poorly" when it comes to the chances of a woman finding you as attractive, becuase, its a fact women's opinion's vary. some guys who look like a 21 year old rodney danger field will probably get an average aroun 4. But guys who look like Orlando Bloom, will get an average score near 9. As you can see, the guy who looks like Bloom would have more women finding him attractive than the Dangerfield look alike. Becuase there is some subjectivity to what is "good looking", both would experience some women considering them as "ugly" and both would experience some as considering them "good looking",(the bloom lookalike would get this alot).

my point exactly

 

[sparky0000]

Who decided whats "good looking"?

i do. so i want pictures of all of you strappin' young studs. shirts optional.

 

[Dannyrt34]

It's all about balancing and equalizing yourself with the women that you want.

For an ugly guy, talking to a HB, he uses neg-hits to bring the HB down to his level. He also uses his ****y/Funny to bring himself up to her level.

For good looking guys, they start out at the same level as the HB. Therefore, he uses less neg-hits and almost no ****iness. The good looking guy can use humor alone. He can also afford to give extra compliments to the girl as sometimes the good looking guy may actually need to build the girl up to level (she may give up and lose interest if she thinks of you as 'out of reach')

Remember this:
Average guys being ****y is funny.
Good looking guys being ****y is conceited.

And another thing. I hate following rules, do what the hell you want.

 

[God_of_getting_layed]

my point exactly

It is subjective.

But in this world, "good looking" doesnt mean "objectively good looking" as in the speed of light is objective. "good looking" means "has a percentage of women who find him attractive that is larger than average" or it "good looking" could mean "has a mean score significantly higher than average" if the guy had many women rate him.

looks are subjective, but theres still a way to classify guys as "good looking" or "ugly". ie rate them, and compare mean scores.

 

[NFC]

I think you have to keep it borderline. I am good looking.. and I had the same problem. At first I think girls became intimidated by me if they found out I took an interest in them. They will put on a girly act and be like "Wow, you really like ME!?". I used to think reassuring them was the answer.. nope. Even girls who are insecure, and have never been around the block at all still want a MAN. I was talking to this virgin girl.. cute, looked innocent.. was a freshman.. I thought she wanted a relationship. Apparently not, she tells me she doesn't want a relationship, and that we should stop talking. I'm just like okay, sure. Now she is like a party girl, and from what I hear, she is looking for some c*ck right now.

I think some people mistake certain girls as shy or insecure.. when in reality, they probably know the rules of the game.. even if it don't seem like that. It's always the cute and innocent ones that suprise you..

 

[Babnik]

I think you have to keep it borderline. I am good looking.. and I had the same problem. At first I think girls became intimidated by me if they found out I took an interest in them. They will put on a girly act and be like "Wow, you really like ME!?". I used to think reassuring them was the answer.. nope. Even girls who are insecure, and have never been around the block at all still want a MAN. I was talking to this virgin girl.. cute, looked innocent.. was a freshman.. I thought she wanted a relationship. Apparently not, she tells me she doesn't want a relationship, and that we should stop talking. I'm just like okay, sure. Now she is like a party girl, and from what I hear, she is looking for some c*ck right now.

I think some people mistake certain girls as shy or insecure.. when in reality, they probably know the rules of the game.. even if it don't seem like that. It's always the cute and innocent ones that suprise you..

I think the better looking you are, the more likely they would want some c*ck than a relationship really.

 

[Babnik]

That's because you have no experience with women. I'm not trying to be rude, but if you're going to post your opinion on something you know nothing about, you should at least include a disclaimer.

So, you are saying its otherwise?

 

[persiangino]

Lol skip you're too funny .. But on the reall...Deus has a point, if you're good looking and you have no confidence as seen in your BL (90% of communication between people, mostly subconscious by the way) you will not get laid by HOT/feminine women. Again, the alpha males that consistently get laid think it is because of their looks (which plays a part no doubt), but considering attraction is not a choice, it is definitely not the main reason. However, since the Bad Guy/jerk has virtually unlimited ***** at his disposal, girls telling him he's 'hot', he comes to think that he really is; consequently boosting his ego (which will show in his BL) and attracting even more pvssy.

In summary the player will consistently get ***** and the AFC/nice guy will consistently get rejected unless he changes. Although, of course, there are exceptions, this theory seems to be generally true in America where feminism has taken over social norms.

 

[rrrrr]

if you're good looking and know it, you wouldn't be wasting time starting these threads, plain and simple, but if you just realized you're really really good looking, just act like smoov b. That's all you have to do. here's Smoov B's game:

http://www.theonion.com/content/node/25831

 

[PRMoon]

These subjective thread questions are difficult to post on if you're a thinking person. Looks are a case by case basis and besides being a lepor or having elephantitus, it's hard to say what's attractive to the opposite sex because they, like us are looking for a varied set of things. I've had girls say I'm attractive and others wouldn't give me the time of day because I'm not their type or whatever.

What I do know for certain is people who are confident in themselves carry themselves as such and even in photo's it shows through and through. Conversely people who have no faith in themselves or who they are look weak and unnatractive. Even when they try to front and temporarily fake confidence, they just don't cut it. So what I've determined what it takes is building confidence and pride in yourself then working towards making yourself more attractive for yourself and your own reasons (working out, getting your skin clean, hair styling etc etc) You have to want it for yourself and your own means and along the way others will notice.

 

[Chase Dat Skuht]

If youre ugly, there's more you can do wrong when attracting women then if youre "hot".

You cant change your genes.. you got to work with what you got. The only difference between ugly and hot dj's is that the ugly ones have to work harder

 

[Bevo]

FYI: I get rated 7 to 10 from HB7 and above. Any girl rated HB6 or below rates me 1 to 5. aint that funny.