Different kind of chick?

[seasonedplayer]

Met a girl who is relationship material - she ticks all the boxes and is dam sexy as well. Went on 2 dates with this girl that went really well. Then she doesn't call me for 2 weeks and on the next call accused me of going to fast for her. She then calls me and we go on 3 more dates. Each date involves kissing and no more. On the last date, she even refused to kiss me so I said to her that I don;t want to see her again. She was then all over me again and apologised etc. and started to kiss me.

This girl has a lot of male friends and doesn't date - her previous boyfriends have been friends of hers. Her last relationship was 6 months ago and didn't end that well.

My head tells me to next this chick. But Could this chick have interest in me but is holding back for some reason? my previous experiences suggest that if she is not all over you then they don't really like you. What is my next move? next her? turn myself into an AFC?

 

[Player_Supreme]

First of all

She didn't call you for two weeks. Don't even ask what I think about her interest level.




Secondly:

She backs off but when you back off she is all over you.


And my third point is

This hor has a lot of male friends I'll bet as well as her ex's being friends with her.

Diagnosis:

Don't waste your fawking time on a attention horr!!!!

She may be attractive but ho's like this love to collect men and she thrives on them adoring her. She doesn't need sex...she needs the love and affection of men.

She uses them cause she is empty inside of any character or substance. You might as well date a bowl of jello for all the shaking your going to get out of her.

She loves getting me hot and crazy over her, hence that "your going too fast" bull-shyt.

Open ya eyes dawg!

 

[JJMcLure]

You are in no position to be calling her relationship material - because from what I see - that's exactly what she isn't.

She has a whole bunch of guy friends? Probably an attention wh0re. That would mean she is hungry for your ATTENTION but NOT for you. She is totally wise to the game and knows how to manipulate guys. She loves to string them along, to boost her ego. The less she has to give in return, the better for her.

The fact she decided to stop kissing you is just whack, it's a red flag. Mixed signals = RED FLAG.

Trust your gut. Don't try to rationalise her.

 

[seasonedplayer]

She may be attractive but ho's like this love to collect men and she thrives on them adoring her. She doesn't need sex...she needs the love and affection of men.

that is correct and i can;t understand it. is she one day going to fall for one of her male friends? will she put out straight away for a guy she likes?

 

[So Many Ways]

I know females that engage in bizarre behavior such as this. Stay away from them. This is a classic case of an attention ***** and you're not going to get anywhere with her.

 

[seasonedplayer]

so do these attention seekers actually seek boyfriends?

 

[Hollowpoint]

Heh, sounded like my ex......or fvck buddy, whatever she was.

 

[MindOverMatter]

You might as well date a bowl of jello for all the shaking your going to get out of her.

Haha that's an awesome quote. PS hit the nail right on the head with his post.

Met a girl who is relationship material - she ticks all the boxes and is dam sexy as well. Went on 2 dates with this girl that went really well.

You went on 2 dates with her when you decided she was relationship material? Don't you think you were rushing into this? Everyone has their faults and quirks and characteristics that annoy you, and there is no way in hell that you will see them in the first 2 dates. I mean yeah you're gonna see all the good stuff in the first 2 dates because they want to make a good first impression, but as soon as you get comfortable, all their faults start to come out. I guess what I'm saying is that you shouldn't make up your mind so soon.