justjosh47
Don Juan
So it’s been a long time since I have written anything , basically life has been good for me in the past two to three years . I found myself and I seemed to find my groove with girls . I ended up working in Shanghai last year and traveling all over the world during that year . So how my former girlfriend stuck with me , came to China to see me and backpacked threw eastern Europe for a month . We officially got back together once I returned to the states , things are looking good . Except for one thing , this Creepy old man will not go away . A few years ago when we first started dating , she told me about a friend of her family that had been creeping her out, a older father figure type supposedly ...
She told me how this guy started making comments to her over dinner ( when he drove int our college town for work) that her and her friend should come back to his hotel and go swimming because he has a pool …anyway a lot of what she told me her comments like these and she was worried about him . She had me come with her and meet him for coffee one way , from what she was telling me I was expecting some aggressive older Jack Nicolson look alike , but instead it was this wimpy old guy who was at least fifteen years my dad’s senior . I didn’t think anything of it until this guy started challenging me , one upping me in conversations , trying to make me look bad , I was pissed and suspicious from then on .
Fast-forward a year later while I am working in China , the same guy is caught having an affair , apparently he is a sex addict and he cuts all contact with my girlfriend , she tells her father about all the weird sh…. This guy was saying to her , her dad does nothing , the family friend remains the family friend . My girl continues to tell me how screwed up and let down she is that her dad did little to protect her . mean while this guy is still eating at their dinner table .
I come home from China , I go to visit her parents and who is sitting at there dinner table but this creepy guy , still one-upping me in conversation , slowly hugging my girl before we leave and looking back at …I felt like I was going to bust a blood vessel in my neck .
So …to rap in up , last week the same guy comes into town and invites her to dinner , she wants me to go with her but I can since I had to work that night . We got in a huge fight and I told her what I thought of the satiation , she still went because she “ felt bad “ over the situation and that he has a “ dieses “ ….her psychology degree shines through every time .
Any thoughts?
-J W
She told me how this guy started making comments to her over dinner ( when he drove int our college town for work) that her and her friend should come back to his hotel and go swimming because he has a pool …anyway a lot of what she told me her comments like these and she was worried about him . She had me come with her and meet him for coffee one way , from what she was telling me I was expecting some aggressive older Jack Nicolson look alike , but instead it was this wimpy old guy who was at least fifteen years my dad’s senior . I didn’t think anything of it until this guy started challenging me , one upping me in conversations , trying to make me look bad , I was pissed and suspicious from then on .
Fast-forward a year later while I am working in China , the same guy is caught having an affair , apparently he is a sex addict and he cuts all contact with my girlfriend , she tells her father about all the weird sh…. This guy was saying to her , her dad does nothing , the family friend remains the family friend . My girl continues to tell me how screwed up and let down she is that her dad did little to protect her . mean while this guy is still eating at their dinner table .
I come home from China , I go to visit her parents and who is sitting at there dinner table but this creepy guy , still one-upping me in conversation , slowly hugging my girl before we leave and looking back at …I felt like I was going to bust a blood vessel in my neck .
So …to rap in up , last week the same guy comes into town and invites her to dinner , she wants me to go with her but I can since I had to work that night . We got in a huge fight and I told her what I thought of the satiation , she still went because she “ felt bad “ over the situation and that he has a “ dieses “ ….her psychology degree shines through every time .
Any thoughts?
-J W