"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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different cologne for daytime and evenings?

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is wearing a evening cologne like dolce gabanna /armani code during the day time a social faux pas? i just bought both after some sampling but it turns out both colognes are recommended for "evening use"...does this mean i can't wear them to school or work?

does wearing cologne have its traditions like not wearing socks with sandals or shoes and belt not matching?

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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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No, that's not what it means.


Yes, some colognes will "work" better with different attire. For example, I personally, would prefer to wear Drakkar Noir with a formal outfit, such as a tux for prom or something, where as Cool Water or Curve: Crush when I'm just hitting the movies.
 

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theory of knowledge said:
is wearing a evening cologne like dolce gabanna /armani code during the day time a social faux pas? i just bought both after some sampling but it turns out both colognes are recommended for "evening use"...does this mean i can't wear them to school or work?
that's them trying to maintain their scents' cachet, by getting everyone to associate that smell with dapper young men.

wear it whenever the hell you want.
 

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I dunno about the dolce gabanna, but I wore armani code to school last term and I got at least two compliments a day about how nice I smelled.
I wear code of an evening, every girl I know has told me how nice I smell...
 

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In the Archives there is this like 15+page discussion on colognes make a search for it and it should give you tons of diff colognes and when they work best...

but my recommendation is go to store, grab a whole lot of cologne samples and try em out at different day times. That will give you a good idea of what works... since colognes react differently from person to person.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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there is no such thing as morning and evening colognes, there are diff types of cologne such as a musky or a spice or a freashness scent...wear what ever you want.
 

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Bible_Belt said:
Did they replace Black Code with Code, or are there two?
code comes in a black box...btw does anyone have the link to the cologne thread? I really can't find it :(
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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