Sup fellas. Went out with this girl once. Never escalated to anything. Was only able to take her out once before our summer classes ended. She lives 4 hours away (school is 8 hours away). I'm well aware I got oneitis if I'm asking this. I have full intentions of playing the field (already got two other girls lined up), but I'm definitely interested in her come fall as well. How much attention do I show her without ruining my chances? The other thing is that we're in this iphone group called beluga. beluga is just an app where it's one big chat room via text messages. She'll chime in and I'll chime in every now and then, but we rarely acknowledge each other in it. Mainly just our friends going back and forth. Should I just drop out of beluga and disappear only texting her directly till fall comes back? How often should I text her without going too hard or going not often enough and losing interest?
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Different cities for the summer
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