Sup fellas. Went out with this girl once. Never escalated to anything. Was only able to take her out once before our summer classes ended. She lives 4 hours away (school is 8 hours away). I'm well aware I got oneitis if I'm asking this. I have full intentions of playing the field (already got two other girls lined up), but I'm definitely interested in her come fall as well. How much attention do I show her without ruining my chances? The other thing is that we're in this iphone group called beluga. beluga is just an app where it's one big chat room via text messages. She'll chime in and I'll chime in every now and then, but we rarely acknowledge each other in it. Mainly just our friends going back and forth. Should I just drop out of beluga and disappear only texting her directly till fall comes back? How often should I text her without going too hard or going not often enough and losing interest?
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Different cities for the summer
- Thread starter Nobody
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