"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Different attitude after sex

Lotusman

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Met this chick in a club, took her home but slept with her on the second date. We had a good vibe and got on really well, but after I slept with her my attitude completely changed, I couldn't be bothered with her anymore and felt "mission accomplished" move on. I've had one-night stands before but never felt a connection so it's been easier. Even though I felt a strong connection with her it's just not enough for me to let go of my current lifestyle and I want to explore & learn more about women b4 i decide to settle down. She calls me everyday and texts me seriously heavy stuff that i just can't deal with.. i just don't answer or say some b.s. should i be straight and cold? but i don't wanna hurt her because i do care for her.

any advice or views on this from the forum?

cheers
 

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So pimp its scary

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Lol... sounds like you just wanted to get your rocks off... give it a week and you'll be wanting to fvck her again...
 

ryannath

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It sounds like you don't care for her at all man. Be honest with yourself. You know it was just sex but apparently she thinks it could be more. I'm sure once you start being more clingy with her (if you do) she won't want a relationship then. When you act like you don't give a fvck if you see them again, they start wanting more.
 
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