"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Different attitude after sex

Lotusman

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Met this chick in a club, took her home but slept with her on the second date. We had a good vibe and got on really well, but after I slept with her my attitude completely changed, I couldn't be bothered with her anymore and felt "mission accomplished" move on. I've had one-night stands before but never felt a connection so it's been easier. Even though I felt a strong connection with her it's just not enough for me to let go of my current lifestyle and I want to explore & learn more about women b4 i decide to settle down. She calls me everyday and texts me seriously heavy stuff that i just can't deal with.. i just don't answer or say some b.s. should i be straight and cold? but i don't wanna hurt her because i do care for her.

any advice or views on this from the forum?

cheers
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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So pimp its scary

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Lol... sounds like you just wanted to get your rocks off... give it a week and you'll be wanting to fvck her again...
 

ryannath

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It sounds like you don't care for her at all man. Be honest with yourself. You know it was just sex but apparently she thinks it could be more. I'm sure once you start being more clingy with her (if you do) she won't want a relationship then. When you act like you don't give a fvck if you see them again, they start wanting more.
 
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