"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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DirkPitt

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I must have fvcked up somehow, because in the past few weeks (I'm starting on week 4 of this bulk cycle), I've gained quite a bit of muscle, however I've noticed that my right arm is a bit bigger than my left. Is this common? It's not significantly so because I haven't had anyone comment on it besides one friend, and my ex says i'm being ridiculous. Any suggestions?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Hot Ice

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It's common to have arms sligtly different sizes.

I'd suggest to do those workouts that require BOTH arms at the same time and going with the weaker arm.

If you have to do separate arm workouts, start with the weaker/smaller side and do reps clean. Then do the same amout with bigger arm even if the bigger arm could do more.

Don't worry about it. It is completely normal to have slightly different sized arms at first when you have just started. They'll get balanced.
 
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