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DirkPitt

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I must have fvcked up somehow, because in the past few weeks (I'm starting on week 4 of this bulk cycle), I've gained quite a bit of muscle, however I've noticed that my right arm is a bit bigger than my left. Is this common? It's not significantly so because I haven't had anyone comment on it besides one friend, and my ex says i'm being ridiculous. Any suggestions?
 

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It's common to have arms sligtly different sizes.

I'd suggest to do those workouts that require BOTH arms at the same time and going with the weaker arm.

If you have to do separate arm workouts, start with the weaker/smaller side and do reps clean. Then do the same amout with bigger arm even if the bigger arm could do more.

Don't worry about it. It is completely normal to have slightly different sized arms at first when you have just started. They'll get balanced.
 
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