Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Difference between thinking and knowing

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Ok after reading alot of the posts about the whole "being good looking and how it affects your chances with the opposite sex" i have come to a conclusion. There is a huge difference between thinking you are good looking and knowing you are(which means you actually are attractive to the opposite sex). For instance, extremely attractive women KNOW they are attractive and use it to their advantage (i.e. attract a good looking guy) and vice versa with attractive males. Ill admit that im a shallow person when it comes to a potential girlfriend or even a booty call. some people have this luxury and some do not.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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stop discussing looks. you are either good looking or not depending who ur parents are. focus on the busting their balls, it works like magic.

i agree with you though. there are people who actually KNOW they are good looking based on previous responses and ones who just fake it and like to think they are.
 

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khash said:
stop discussing looks. you are either good looking or not depending who ur parents are. focus on the busting their balls, it works like magic.

i agree with you though. there are people who actually KNOW they are good looking based on previous responses and ones who just fake it and like to think they are.

"focus on the busting their balls, it works like magic."

what are u talkin about??
 

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be ****y and funny all the time. bust their balls is what that means. never give them directly what they ask for. tease them, flake on them, be unpredictable. create an obsession. all of these are busting women's balls. MESS with them.

stop discussing looks. it helps, but there is more than one exit in the highway.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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