"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Difference between teasing and flirting?

GoodForm

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Although I had a good run pre- new years, my game has been pretty poor lately. So it got me thinking what I am doing wrong. I am very good at teasing and picking on girls and escalating kino but thats where it stops. I guess the AFC in me is still working through being more sexual (but it's getting there!). Doesn't help either that I'm stuffed with work and I go out with enough girls although they are all in relationships.

So whats the difference? Is there any and how do I flirt more better?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Johnnyventana

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Define what you consider teasing? Is it off-putting?

Teasing and flirting can often be one of the same. If not, yes, you are doing it wrong.
 

FairShake

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If they are attracted or interested in you teasing is a vital component of flirting.

If they aren't attracted or interested in you teasing is annoying and obnoxious.
 
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