"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Difference between teasing and flirting?

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Although I had a good run pre- new years, my game has been pretty poor lately. So it got me thinking what I am doing wrong. I am very good at teasing and picking on girls and escalating kino but thats where it stops. I guess the AFC in me is still working through being more sexual (but it's getting there!). Doesn't help either that I'm stuffed with work and I go out with enough girls although they are all in relationships.

So whats the difference? Is there any and how do I flirt more better?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Define what you consider teasing? Is it off-putting?

Teasing and flirting can often be one of the same. If not, yes, you are doing it wrong.
 
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If they are attracted or interested in you teasing is a vital component of flirting.

If they aren't attracted or interested in you teasing is annoying and obnoxious.
 
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