Difference between high IL flirting and attention seeking

[Jariel]

I'm finding that most women I get talking to these days starts flirting with me in some way and giving me the textbook indicators of interest (open body language, kino, hair flicking, eye contact etc). However, I can't tell the difference between the genuinely interested women and those who are just playing for attention.

Just wondering if there are any differences?

The reason I ask is because I'm sick of feeding the egos of attention wh0res and will not return the flirting if I suspect that's what they are.

 

[spider_007]

look, flirting should be fun!!!!!! It don't matter if she really wants you or if she is just flirty person. It's all in the name of fun.

 

[h2o]

from my own experience, i'd say if she's genuinely interested, and you don't make a move because either you're not interested or something; she'll probably get ticked off or give up and get disappointed

i'd say if they are too flirty they're probably teasing. girls who are really interested...even if not shy girls, they will be somewhat submissive and not that flirty...they'll give more subtle hints, though it will be fairly obvious ...just not that obvious

...unless they're just a horny-as-hell slut, and that doesn't happen too often in everyday places

i'm talking in normal, everday environments, not clubs/bars...because when she's tipsy she'll be flirty to the max...and that usually leads to sex anyway

i'd say don't initiate flirting until they do. i don't ask names or even smile until they do. that's one way i can always tell for sure

 

[h2o]

Originally posted by spider_007
look, flirting should be fun!!!!!! It don't matter if she really wants you or if she is just flirty person. It's all in the name of fun.

yeah it can be fun...but sometimes you get to the point where you don't want to waste your time anymore, and you realize your time is more valuable than that