Difference between having high standards and a nasty girl

[sambwoy]

Following up that Joe Date video, many people say they revisit this video because they can't believe such a girl exists.

Its one thing to have standards in a partner, but at the end of the day I get the feeling much of this behaviour has nothing to do with physical attraction (or in this case, the lack of it). They seem to be not nice to be around, period. I would like to know what went on off-camera.

Me, I'm 26, and admittedly have very little pride in many opportunities/public situations I am in (because I was called names and put down as a kid/teen) and I guess I avoid the asking out because of fear of reliving feelings I associate with rejection. What should I do with a girl like the one in the video?

Sorry if the title doesn't look right.

 

[TheException]

I'm 26, and admittedly have very little pride in many opportunities/public situations I am in (because I was called names and put down as a kid/teen)

Dont make excuses. Everybody experiences sh1tty things in life. You have to get past them on your own without making them some big phenomenon. Man up.

What should I do with a girl like the one in the video?

Girls dont act like this. Joe date is a creep and a loser so no wonder he gets sh1t. If you do what he does, then id say youd deserve it....

Most women will atleast soft reject you(IHAB, etc) its just your fear telling you she will make it worse and blow up your spot or something. Fuk that emotion called fear and just go for it.

And if the situation were to happen to me...i would laugh to myself then walk away.

 

[floydb25]

Man, I was bullied / used / played to hell and back. Yea, it does affect you, but it has nothing to do with you. In fact, people who get bullied are usually attractive and talented.

Bullies are insecure losers who have nothing going for them, have **** for personalities, no class or quality... they dump their insecurities out on others to try and elevate themselves. It's the same reason they judge, criticize, pick on, take sides against, define, and try to control others. They're worthless. All they do is fail, and take it out on others.

I was friends with bullies, and got caught up in those crowds, and they were all garbage. Losers who tear everyone else down, try to keep everyone beneath them, compete over everything, judge and gossip, focus on everyone else's flaws and weaknesses, and try to tell them what they're doing wrong and what they need to do - while acting like they're better than everyone else ... they're fake and insecure. The biggest cowards and pretenders you'll ever meet - with a life full of failure and rejection.

Never let losers bring you down to their level, or believe anything they say... because it's not true, and has no basis on reality. All they're doing is projecting their own weaknesses and insecurities onto you. **** them. In fact, don't care what anyone thinks - because they're going to judge you either way. Their opinion means nothing.

 

[Krueg]

Why are you stressing about the past? Sounds like your living in the past! Every day is a new day and you only get one life. Cut your loses and move on to bigger and better things!

 

[Purefilth]

link to vid?