"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Difference between being lean or skinny? What am I?

Dan08

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Sup SS,

Been working out consistently for around 4 months now putting on some muscle mass and getting some strength gains and I fit my clothes better now, and can significantly lift heavier then when I first started.
However, people still call me skinny which :cuss: me off as I know I'm lifting in the gym and watching what I eat as I'm about to go into a cutting phase and so a natural effect of this is obviously lower bodyfat %
People see this and are like :nono: 'Dan you're too skinny around your waist' or my personal favorite 'I can see your ribs' and I try to explain to them that in fact what they're seeing is a lean physique but they don't listen. :down:

Regardless I want your guys opinion, am I lean or skinny? Personally I say I'm lean, I have muscle mass particularly across my shoulders and pecs and when I start this cutting phase and drop the calories I'll hopefully get down to 8-10% bodyfat for my abdominals to show. Would you agree with this thinking?



Thoughts? (Excuse dodgy faces >.<)

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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Purefilth

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Youre skinny man.

not utterly skinny, you have potential there, you need to bulk up, probably about 10 - 20 lb of muscle on top, you will look lean when shredded.

As I said - you have potential. good diet and a lot of lifting would do you well. however , if you go on a cut now, there will be nothing left of you. :D

Besides - Abs on a skinny guy = boobs on a fat girl. They dont count.

Start up a workout log, state your aims and goals. Diet plan etc... plenty of lads here to help.

dont get down about being skinny, its a starting point - I was there a few years ago.

Best advice from me - eat clean, train hard - DONT go on a cut, keep bulking. personally ive never been on a cut. im lean enough. IMO -

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Theres me, Still a long way to go. Always Proud - but never Satisfied.

You will notice the difference before your friends and family do. People will alk shiit, take the piiss and try to get you down. FVCK'EM. Do it for you.

And remember - http://img11.imageshack.us/img11/2682/baneg.jpgYou EARN every muscle cell you put on.


Good luck.
 
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TheStig

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Yeah dude....you are pretty skinny. Definitely no need to cut. Just bulk up and stay lean, you will look big and ripped.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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