"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Diet Plan For A Newbie

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hi all

This is my first post here, i've been lurking here for a while here trying to some tips for weight loss but i found out that weight loss methods are unique to everyone

Im 21 yo, height 182cm , weight 80kg, and 26% body fat .... i have been doing crunches and leg lifts at least 4 times a week and lift weights daily .... my body is ok but i still cant get rid of these goddamn love handles and those last few pounds around my belly

I dont mind talking my time to lose weight but if i can get rid of them within 1 or 2 month that would be great ...... like i said im a newbie but i think the problem is with my diet

Any help is appreciated thanks in advance
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Here's a very basic diet plan that will work very effectively if you're patient enough and have the willpower to see it through.

First month - drop all high sugar foods and all simple carbs (white flour products, rice, bread, potatoes, cereals) and replace with complex carbs (wholemeal alternatives, brown rice, oatmeal).

Second Month - Reduce your carb meals to twice a day and eat no carbs 5 hours before bed.

Third Month - Reduce your carb meals to once per day at breakfast and have one day per week where you allow yourself 2 carb meals, just to keep your energy and mood up.

Fourth month - Stick to the above but add 15-20 minutes of cardio work (running, biking etc) 3 times per week.

If you follow this gradual cut it will stop you from plataeuing too soon, will keep your mood from crashing and will be much easier to handle than an extreme and sudden diet. It will also help burn fat rather than muscle, whereas sudden diets tend to shock your body and cause you to retain more fat.

Also, remember to eat plenty of protein to maintain your muscle during this time. Ideally you will work out with weights or at least do some bodyweight exercises that tax your muscles.

Drink lots of water too and cut out alcohol as best you can as it messes with your metabolism.
 

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thanks very much for the replies
@Jariel i just have one question high sugar foods are chocolates and stuff like that but it doesn't include fruits right??
 

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cititechno said:
thanks very much for the replies
@Jariel i just have one question high sugar foods are chocolates and stuff like that but it doesn't include fruits right??
Obviously fruit has a lot of nutritional value, but when trying to drop weight it should be eaten in moderation. Nothing wrong with an apple a day or a couple of bananas a week, but don't make the common mistake of thinking fruit = heatlhy therefore I can eat as much as I want. Better to eat green vegetables as they have high nutritional value and less sugar. As you get to the tougher cutting stages you might want to cut the fruit down to a bare minimum.

I have to disagree with the previous comment and suggest avoiding fruit juices. Nutritionally they're very good (the ones without additives that is), but for fat loss, very bad! Although I do agree with his suggestion of Green Tea, water before meals and 5-6 small meals per day. It will speed up your metabolism.
 

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Hey guys just wanted to say great thread!

This is helpful for a guy trying to lose some pounds
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Thanks alot jarel and abnar for your suggestions .... will post updates :D
 

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Solomon said:
Hey guys just wanted to say great thread!

This is helpful for a guy trying to lose some pounds
Besides Jariel, this thread is full of spam bots.
 
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