"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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BringUrGreenHat

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I've just started on Anthony Ellis program to change from skinny guy into ripped. I've just set up an eating schedule with my father to keep me in line and focused, and sprinter track workotus provide me the exercise i need I lift everyday except wednesday and sundays and run everyday. I'll post a current picture and statistics tmw, once i receive my body caliper. Im in for a ride over the next 4 months, but Im tired of being called skinny and small, and im tired of being pushed around and overlooked because of my size. I'm done being being somebody small in this world, and this is my start.

So it begins...
(NOTE: Plz no stupid replies, im trying to actually use this as a journal so I can analyze my results as I go, thanks.)
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Jay-X

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my best wishes for improvement! how old r u? what are your height and weight? it's better to write them in the journal, so u and we can see ur improvements!
 

Lifeforce

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Best wishes on your improvements. A little sidenote might be to cut back on the running. If you are skinny you probably have somewhat the same genetic makeup when it comes to metabolism as me. Running that much if you are a hardgainer or ectomorph will seriously undermine your bulking. you might even cut back one training a week keeping making it 4 strenght workouts each week. Otherwise it seems you are somewhat in the risk zone off overtraining.
 

BringUrGreenHat

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Okay well I haven't received my caliper yet, or measured myself in chest, waist, or arms... But im 5'9 132 lbs. I run for state track team, compete nationally. I can't stop training, I'd get my ass beat worse by my sponsors and parents if i stopped then I would overtraining. I'm well aware of my abilities. But, I am infact a hardgainer, so its been tough to put on the weight, and never had a chance to because of nationals... But I've got half a year to give it my best shot. So I'm going to go for it.
 
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