Didn't make a move early enough, is it too late?

[Kenny Powers]

this hb was really into me, but i decided to take it slow cause she is relationship material and i kinda wanted to mess around a little with this other girl before anything happened haha.

Anyway we chilled a lot and her interest was super high, but i missed some key opportunities to make a move (i.e. romantically kiss her). Then out of nowhere she becomes much less responsive and acts kinda weird. I'm still conveying interest but getting much less in return from her than before - still a little though.

I'm worried she met another guy this weekend when she blew me off, and he did what i should have done to begin with and made a move early on like an f-ing man. Im super pissed at myself and don't want to lose her.

Should i play it cool and act like her disinterest doesn't bother me or try to see her asap and pull her in and kiss her as soon as i can.

I'm thinking the latter but I'm honestly worried there is a small chance her interest is so low i might not even get to see her again. I know im over thinking things, but its only cause i f-ed up super bad and really like her.

If things keep going down hill i may send her text saying "can we talk, it's really important" then sexually alpha the shiit out her somehow and make a move haha.

idk does anyone have any ideas or thoughts? I don't want to hear about how badly i f-ed up and what a biitch i am cause i already know that. Just advice. Thanks. Also i have other plates so don't suggest that. And yes this girl is worth the trouble since her disinterest is like 95% my fault, she was all over me a week ago.

 

[PapiChulo]

So now you are interested because she is showing disinterest. Whatever you do, don't act desperate and rushed because you think you might have f&$ked up. And don't send that text. So you two are going out or what? As friends? How do you know she had a genuine interest in you? Also match your interest level with hers, she is blowing you off- you blow her off and go out with other people. Next time you are out, make the damn move- she might just think you are too much of a pus$y or just not into her.

 

[whosthat]

you lost your chance, gone forever, you didnt kiss her

 

[DonGorgon]

always make a strong move early cause it will let you know if she likes you and ca save you alot of time wasted on women who dont like you but want you to chase and spend

 

[shizz702]

always make a strong move early cause it will let you know if she likes you and ca save you alot of time wasted on women who dont like you but want you to chase and spend

Agreed. Early rejection can be a good thing, saves you precious time and lets you know right from the get go if she is down or not. Make them moves and kino that azz right out the gate. Even if she is relationship material you have got to phsyically show interest.

You may still have a chance. Just don't fall into the clingy needy trap and see if you can line something up and redeem your missed opportunity.

 

[phatboi408]

First it's a mindset.

You didnt make the move because you were too scared - unattractive.

You know you could of made the move but you wanted to build sexual tension so you waited - attractive.

You were in the wrong mindset.

 

[Gangster Of Love]

He who hesitates, masturbates!