“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Didn't give me her ##.....big deal or neezy??

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First thing to note: she's got a boyfriend, out of HS though

Aight this girl.....vase body....sort of lame ass but I would very much hit it...her lips kick ass though!!. Always pursed. She looks just like this and her lips are what give me wowsers in my trousers

Thats the closest looking picture of her although shes shorter

We first had a class together a few months back & thats when I was getting into the game, I decided "what the hell" and tried an opinion opener, and like magic she opened up so much. (but I think she had some initial attraction 4 me) "Would you date a guy that talks to his Ex....blah blah....etc"

I did huge kino on her a lot....probably got her wet a couple times from stuff I experimented with

We switched out though cuz it was a g.ay class...then I started visiting her class that she has with my other friend.

4/7/10

In the cafeteria I open up a 3 set...her, this other girl I know and this other girl I sorta know, all at a table. Time constraint...then "If a girl makes out w/ other girl at a party is it cheating"...all while stealing her friends peaches...

She says shes kissed her friend before, then gets embarassed quickly like she shouldnt have said that. (her friend got annoyed too LOL)

ANYWAY, lots IOIs shes smiling at me the whole time, she wanted to see my tight-ass fone (but the ***** didnt put her # in) I was looking at hers, decided not to put my # in cuz thats sort of lame. Anyway as I'm about to go I tell her, "Bonita Applebum (didnt call her that) whats your #?"

SHE SAYS

Sweet-Lips: "Oh I dont have a number, *nervous smile*"
Me: um wtf
Sweet-Lips: I mean!! Well I do but um....


I was like ok you dont want to give it to me thats cool. I didnt freak out but I was a little bummed, I thought she'd give it to me. Still think she's pretty attracted...if I'm around she def can't be thinking straight to say a dumbass thing like "I dont have a number" lol

Idk if I should have pursued but I didnt think I would get far in front of her friends.

W/e I'm going to ask her again. She didnt say "I have a boyfriend" so I'm taking that as a green light to ask her again
 
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Update: I saw her today at the lunch line, and just asked her for 50 cents. She complied and gave it to me without complaining...; while she was digging through her purse I told her to hurry up....afterwords I felt like a **** though, she was doing me a favor and I was rude about it ha....hopefully that will be enough emotion swing for me to get her number tomorrow....shoulda got it today. I only saw her at lunch though.
 

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mrjoe815 said:
if she didnt give you her number, its pretty much done
Hey man thanks for your comment, I appreciate it. I really hope you're wrong though lol.

But if I messed up I can pinpoint my mistakes. I get pretty tense and a little too serious sometimes in approaches but I am learning more with experience...if this was a rejection then that is a plus

it would only be my second real rejection I've ever got, I need a little more to really know what it feels like haha (& how to deal w/ it, etc)
 
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