"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Didn't give me her ##.....big deal or neezy??

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First thing to note: she's got a boyfriend, out of HS though

Aight this girl.....vase body....sort of lame ass but I would very much hit it...her lips kick ass though!!. Always pursed. She looks just like this and her lips are what give me wowsers in my trousers

Thats the closest looking picture of her although shes shorter

We first had a class together a few months back & thats when I was getting into the game, I decided "what the hell" and tried an opinion opener, and like magic she opened up so much. (but I think she had some initial attraction 4 me) "Would you date a guy that talks to his Ex....blah blah....etc"

I did huge kino on her a lot....probably got her wet a couple times from stuff I experimented with

We switched out though cuz it was a g.ay class...then I started visiting her class that she has with my other friend.

4/7/10

In the cafeteria I open up a 3 set...her, this other girl I know and this other girl I sorta know, all at a table. Time constraint...then "If a girl makes out w/ other girl at a party is it cheating"...all while stealing her friends peaches...

She says shes kissed her friend before, then gets embarassed quickly like she shouldnt have said that. (her friend got annoyed too LOL)

ANYWAY, lots IOIs shes smiling at me the whole time, she wanted to see my tight-ass fone (but the ***** didnt put her # in) I was looking at hers, decided not to put my # in cuz thats sort of lame. Anyway as I'm about to go I tell her, "Bonita Applebum (didnt call her that) whats your #?"

SHE SAYS

Sweet-Lips: "Oh I dont have a number, *nervous smile*"
Me: um wtf
Sweet-Lips: I mean!! Well I do but um....


I was like ok you dont want to give it to me thats cool. I didnt freak out but I was a little bummed, I thought she'd give it to me. Still think she's pretty attracted...if I'm around she def can't be thinking straight to say a dumbass thing like "I dont have a number" lol

Idk if I should have pursued but I didnt think I would get far in front of her friends.

W/e I'm going to ask her again. She didnt say "I have a boyfriend" so I'm taking that as a green light to ask her again
 
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Update: I saw her today at the lunch line, and just asked her for 50 cents. She complied and gave it to me without complaining...; while she was digging through her purse I told her to hurry up....afterwords I felt like a **** though, she was doing me a favor and I was rude about it ha....hopefully that will be enough emotion swing for me to get her number tomorrow....shoulda got it today. I only saw her at lunch though.
 

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mrjoe815 said:
if she didnt give you her number, its pretty much done
Hey man thanks for your comment, I appreciate it. I really hope you're wrong though lol.

But if I messed up I can pinpoint my mistakes. I get pretty tense and a little too serious sometimes in approaches but I am learning more with experience...if this was a rejection then that is a plus

it would only be my second real rejection I've ever got, I need a little more to really know what it feels like haha (& how to deal w/ it, etc)
 
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