Didn't Even Bother to Meet Online Date: What Would You Have Done?

[HalfPUAHalfAFC]

Not looking for advice, just posting to see what sort of action you would have taken here and/or any commentary on what I did.

I use online dating as a sorting of fishing/trolling maneuver. That is, throw out some bait and see if anything bites. Little to no effort, which I save for usually night game.

Anyway, about a week or so ago this HB7 (from her photos) contacts me and two days ago I suggest we meet for some drinks at a live-music social event our city has during the summers. We coordinate meeting via text, i.e., over by the statue, etc.

So she gets there. About 40 pounds heavier than her picture and about 3 years older. To hell with that....

I didn't even bother meeting her. Did not introduce myself or anything. Just saw her from a far, kept walking, met some other friends.

My phone blows up for about 30 minutes. I ignore.

Last night (Friday), I get a call from a "blocked number" and some angry b!tch (probably friend or sister of the girl I stood up) is all cussing me out and stuff.

Anyway... I think we all agree we owe a woman nothing if her online profile/photo looks nothing like her.

But, would you meet her and then politely excuse yourself early?

Would you--like one of Roosh's stories--walk up to her and say "you look nothing like your picture" and walk away?

Or, do what I did and simply not bother even introducing yourself?

Or, something else?

What's a fun/alpha/**** move here?

I think we could brainstorm with some ideas we can keep in our pocket for such scenarios.

Thoughts fellas??

 

[switch]

you did the right thing........she would have done the same if she was in your shoes

women flake all the time, ....once in a while its good to make them taste their own BS

 

[yyc12]

Meh..I'd have met her and made it a "one and done". I was in a similar situation before but I was the one that was there early so I couldn't escape. Not sure why people do this. At some point you're going to have to meet so why lie about something that you KNOW will eventually come out. You can't hide your appearance.

In general, if I agree to meet, I follow through. We all like when people keep their word so why should we not do so ourselves?

 

[HalfPUAHalfAFC]

In general, if I agree to meet, I follow through. We all like when people keep their word so why should we not do so ourselves?

Because "her word" was a lie from the beginning.

She posted pics of herself that looking nothing like how she appears right now.

I had to look 2-3 times from afar to make sure it was her because she looked nothing like her pictures.

And if her pictures looked like she does not, I would never have agreed to meet her in the first place.

She was practicing fraud. So, I felt no obligation to follow through on the plans.

 

[Demonicale]

Personally i think it's pretty low and pathetic to gut's out on a meet, you should've actually acted like a MAN and meet her and tell her that she's not anything what she looks like and that your leaving.

 

[coachD]

Maybe just walk up and ask for a Bjob. If she says yes, great...it's still a blow. If no then you just walk away.

 

[Demonicale]

Maybe just walk up and ask for a Bjob. If she says yes, great...it's still a blow. If no then you just walk away.

LMAO!, i like this, because it's blunt,rude and damm takes balls ...

 

[yyc12]

Because "her word" was a lie from the beginning.

She posted pics of herself that looking nothing like how she appears right now.

I had to look 2-3 times from afar to make sure it was her because she looked nothing like her pictures.

And if her pictures looked like she does not, I would never have agreed to meet her in the first place.

She was practicing fraud. So, I felt no obligation to follow through on the plans.

Good point.

 

[switch]

again AFCs talking out of their ass
dudez in this economy, you are going to waste your time AND money on a girl which YOU HAVE NO INTEREST IN whatsoever.

a coffee date is 15 mins , thats 5 - 600 bucks depending on your job
then we have two starfags coffees which have sh!tty homebrewed dog piss in them supposedly called vodka...$20
transportation - $10-20

overall that date costs your bank account anything from $25 to 640
fvck that, ill waste my time on a HB 6-8

 

[plate's_empty]

This has happened to me before. I met with her. Had lunch, boring conversation...she was nervous but nice. I paid because I felt bad and knew I wasn't going to see her again. Yeah, I'm a pu$$y, but I know how it feels to be stood up.

I took it as my fault. I didn't ask for extra pictures, which I had always done in the past. I also didn't ask how recent her pictures were. Cardinal rule of online dating.

I chalked it up to a learning experience.

 

[TillTheEndOfTime]

When you said that a HB7 messaged YOU out of the blue, I thought bullsh1t. Unless you are an adonis, that NEVER happens. Even HB5's think they're too good for most guys online.

Then you said she was 40lbs heavier. OH. Now it makes sense. haha

 

[yyyy1313]

I'm with you bro. She started **** with a lie. You ended it the most polite way you could. Maybe a call would've been nice, MAYBE but she started everything with a lie. **** THAT!