"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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So, its exam time for my school.
This girl and i had plans to study and that i would text her last thursday and shed get bak to me.
So she never texts back.
when i see her sat night at this party im like what the hell why didnt u get bak to me and shes like o i never got ur text and she told me to text her again.
Sunday i completely forget, monday and tuesday i dont have my phone.
On tuesday night i get home and on facebook shes like "still no text" i reply tht ill call her the next day.
Wednesday i call her and she says well study on friday but shell get bak to me thursday.
Thursday she says she has a tutor itll 2 bu shell call me then.
I dont see her friday and after the exam at 11 i end up going to this other girls house with her friend who i might think might like me and the first girl never ends up calling me.
SO... i know i messed up by telling her to call me.. but.. what happened?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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DonAlan456 said:
So, its exam time for my school.
This girl and i had plans to study and that i would text her last thursday and shed get bak to me.
So she never texts back.
when i see her sat night at this party im like what the hell why didnt u get bak to me and shes like o i never got ur text and she told me to text her again.
Sunday i completely forget, monday and tuesday i dont have my phone.
On tuesday night i get home and on facebook shes like "still no text" i reply tht ill call her the next day.
Wednesday i call her and she says well study on friday but shell get bak to me thursday.
Thursday she says she has a tutor itll 2 bu shell call me then.
I dont see her friday and after the exam at 11 i end up going to this other girls house with her friend who i might think might like me and the first girl never ends up calling me.
SO... i know i messed up by telling her to call me.. but.. what happened?
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Here's what you did wrong as far as I know ...

1. No txting, just call her; make it short and to the point

2. Cmon man, you can't act like you care that much. She's supposed to be the one to bring it up, and then you say something like "oh that's right, you didn't .." (like you just remembered because it wasn't a big deal)

3. Unless she acutally had a tutor .. she's flaking. You two had plans to study and now she's busy on the day that she was supposed to confirm.

I like to use the strike system. Three strikes and I will next. I'd give her one strike for being busy for when you two had planned to talk, and then another for never acutally going through with hanging out. Next time she ****s up, just stop talking to her and let he initiate.
 
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