“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Did'nt Call her back

Legend

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Alright, i finally got the girl i am really interested in to call me up every so often. Things have been going pretty well, but lately i have'nt really been feeling her as much as i have in the pass. Maybe because shes not giving it up, the distance and her games.

Anyway whenever she calls me i would call her right back and see whats up. But the other day she left me a voice message and i never called her back.

Its been like 24 hours and i have'nt called her back...so shes probably wondering why. Whats a good thing i can say to her so i dont ruin things any ruther? Should i call her back? Or should i wait until she calls again?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Originally posted by Legend

Anyway whenever she calls me i would call her right back and see whats up. But the other day she left me a voice message and i never called her back.
It's not a good idea to always obediently call her back. You need to keep her IL up, be a challenge, etc., etc.


Its been like 24 hours and i have'nt called her back...so shes probably wondering why. Whats a good thing i can say to her so i dont ruin things any ruther? Should i call her back? Or should i wait until she calls again?
Ruin things? Should I call her back? Stop worrying about "ruining" things, and heaven forbid you don't call back within 24 hours. This is how an AFC thinks. You don't have to walk on eggshells for this chick.

Were you paying attention during the first day of DJ 101? :D

Good luck.
 

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c'mon...i need some good excuses why i have'nt called. I could also just not even give her a straight answer. That normally works.
 

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Originally posted by Legend
c'mon...i need some good excuses why i have'nt called. I could also just not even give her a straight answer. That normally works.
No. You don't need good excuses. Is she your mother? Do you need to report your life back to her? You don't have to tell her anything if you don't want to, and you shouldn't worry about "ruining" anything either. Sorry, but this is major AFC behavior.
 
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