My dad well he didn't say anything directly to me, but I learned from him by watching him. He is always calm and I have never seen him angry, tho once he did become angry and I was sh!t scared. When he was transferred to his current branch of his company, it was pretty much in tatters with infighting among the staff and losses and what not. He came like 2-3 years ago, now this branch is among the most profitable for his company. And he done this turnaround with atleast 3-4 branches. Now before coming to this site, I never paid attention to what he did, but after reading the stuff here and then I observed him and it EXACTLY matches what it said here, especially the "Be a man" and "kill the desperation " thread. And he has been doing this stuff for the last so many years.I must say he is a living walking DJ role model for me. Too bad I was an afc for 18 friggin years. He has never said *one* word about chicks to me. I asked my mum and she said that atleast 3-4 chicks wanted to marry my dad at that time but he chose my mum. No wonder she is totally devoted to him, even though he can be a complete jerk at times. I wonder how I became such an afc even though I have such a DJ dad. But still thank God I discovered this site, otherwise I would have remained an afc.
I only wish I had half the will power of my dad and I could be a great man. Now I am not boasting or anything, I am just happy that I got a role model at home.