"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Did You know? This video will blow your mind

Did this video blow your mind?

  • Yes! I am glad i watch it, its just... wow

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  • No.... its just an okay video

    Votes: 5 55.6%
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Daydream Engineer

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Hooligan Harry

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Daydream Engineer said:
I cant believe this, how did this happen! wow. Just epic. Did you know that....
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UIDLIwlzkgY

This is the real reason why i want to become a Don Juan in life. We are surrounded by a sea of brainwashed individuals who will never see the light, sheep just being sheep... baaa baaa

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Im curious to know what it is exactly that you find so alarming about this video?
 
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piranha45

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i liked the music, but the "WOW LETS FLASH BIG STATISTICS!!~~!~" approach doesn't sell me.
 
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search1ng

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but whats this got to do with being a Don Juan? Sure it does flash around statistics but it's what you make of it. It's true there are more random jobs today then all those years ago. But it's a natural byproduct of the advance in technology. I'm sure just as many jobs disappeared because of the increase in jobs.
 
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Cry For Love

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information increase fast - energy increase slow

that is the concern, extra information is diminishingly useful compared to more energy

we need more energy!!!!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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